C'mon, not a person on Earth who reacts to Judy can be considered to blame entirely, and Rick is also human, if not more so than most, and the fact that he gives modship to others over himself shows he doesn't care to be in the backseat taking a secondary driver role. He goes with what he feels to be true. Judy deserves everything she gets. Including compassion, and just as for all of us, we all deserve by virtue of being here, all the best that we can have. My dissing her is in trying to increase her capacity for happiness by pointing out her natural seeking within karma for happiness, she as us will never find it. Nor will anyone ever agree with us, and with such a Junkyard Dogness it's even close to impossible to feel much love, and yet, somehow we do don't we? I bet even you Barry love Judy. Admit it!
-----Original Message----- From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of lurkernomore20002000 Sent: Tuesday, March 27, 2007 7:45 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Addiction, and compassion for it --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: snip > > But we can. Treat her with the same compassion you > would show to a heroin addict. As Richard Williams > says, "Don't feed it." Judy LIVES to defend herself > against "attacks," real or imagined. Those attacks, > and the high she gets from retaliating against them, > are her drug of choice. CUT HER OFF, for her own > good. Don't give her any more excuses to feed an > addiction that is killing her. Yes compassion is what is called for. And avoid the piling on. For the record, I thought Rick's comment about the "designated driver" was insensitive, and had a gloating quality about it. I enjoy Judy at five posts a day. In a measured dose, I think it's a great contribution. lurk > To subscribe, send a message to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Or go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/ and click 'Join This Group!' Yahoo! Groups Links