--- In [email protected], "Rory Goff" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> 
wrote:
>
> --- In [email protected], "jim_flanegin" <jflanegi@> 
> wrote:
> > >
> > Yes, spacetime and growth *are* a big joke, and while we are 
> > laughing at them, they are laughing right back at us, watching 
our 
> > every move, evaluating, seeing if we are slave or master, with 
> neck, 
> > hand and leg-irons at the ready! Ha-Ha! You are bringing out the 
> > mirth and giggles in me again...could we call the Peck stages, 1-
> > sleepwalking, 2-awakened point value, 3-awakened multi-point 
value, 
> > 4-awakened infinite point value, which then transcends its point 
> > value altogether? 
> > 
> > A beautiful model. It certainly explains the dynamics here on 
FFL 
> > sometimes where the eclectics (you know who you are! hehe) will 
> > mistake a state of unconditional love for that of fundamentalism 
> > and/or chaos. 
> > 
> > And I can totally relate to that moment of recognition when 
> > unconditional Love was recognized clearly and unmistakably by me 
as 
> > the goal and being simultaneously completely terrified! HA-HA! 
> Seems 
> > gently silly now, but at the time and whenever I would think of 
it 
> > afterwards, I'd have a visceral reaction like I knew I could no 
> > longer hide in my skin. Unnerving to say the least. Like the 
joke 
> > about the General watching the opposing army advance on him, and 
he 
> > turns to his aide, and barks, "Bring me my brown pants!". 
> > 
> > In any case, yes, all that is left after that is the steady and 
> > exciting journey towards death and dissolution (!), all 
resistance 
> > is futile. Once bitten by the Supreme Love Bug we all succumb 
> > eventually. :-)
> 
> *lol* Yes; I like all this! I think too for me the deepest lesson 
> from M. Scott Peck is, if the model helps me understand another, 
see 
> myself in the other and the other in myself, then it's useful. If 
I 
> am tempted to use it to pigeonhole another, to exalt myself over 
> another or place myself ahead of another, then I can remember the 
> deeper implication -- that I cannot ever really judge where 
another 
> lies on this scale. After all, all we can see is where we are -- 
and 
> where we've been. And if another looks to be *behind* us, how can 
we 
> know that they're not really *ahead* of us, on another turn of the 
> spiral entirely? In truth, on several levels, all I ever really 
know 
> is myself! And appreciate the Other :-)
> 
> *L*L*L*
>
Yes, it is a good point, and a constant reminder, lest I begin to 
take my movie subtitles as gospel. :-) And the issue at hand isn't 
whether someone is "behind" us or "ahead" of us. It is what we do 
with the information. Peck's model just seems to fit so elegantly, 
and the dynamics of [albeit illusory] spiritual growth can be seen 
as fitting perfectly into such a model. 

So, on the one hand Peck's model may explain a situation to the 
point where we can realize an A-HA experience from the clarity that 
the model imposes on such dynamics. Yet to take it a step further 
and condemn another for where they might be seen realistically in 
Peck's model irreperably destroys the model, because its pinnacle is 
the inclusive nature of unconditional love, not the exclusivity of 
the prior states. 

So recognizing things for what they are, and always being cognizant 
of our surrender to His and Her Creation is the important lesson. 
That's what I got when you said the other person may be several 
turns ahead of us. I don't believe that they are with regard to 
Peck's model if they in fact are not. On the other hand if I use 
such a situation for condemnation, I am no longer adhering to the 
ultimate truth of Peck's model. 

Its a difficult and precise pathway to take, to at once see things 
for what they are, the point value, and the valid interrelatedness 
of the points, and at the same time recognizing that the 
relationships as they appear are sacred because they are within 
Brahman. 

A similar analogy could be used for the much abused Caste system of 
India, the purpose of which is to allow for quickest growth within 
one's dharma. How is this then abused? By becoming a system of one 
group lording their status over another. Instead of recognizing 
different levels as being a natural part of life, there is our 
temptation to instead use them as a means of subjugating and 
negatively categorizing another.

The way out lies not in deciding to ignore such natural distinctions 
as are made in Peck's model or the caste system, and pretend that 
such a model is stood on its head, or doesn't really exist, but 
rather to work to accept such a model, and not abuse the Divine 
information we gain from understanding and seeing clearly such 
distinctions.



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