Have you looked in his mouth to be sure he doesn't have a tumor or anything wrong in there? His gagging might be a physical problem, and his not eating too, come to think of it!
"Well this was my second time trying, we warmed up the food and I decide to use my finger, It was so awful, we spoke our usual baby talk and I also warmed up the food a little, you would think we were trying to poison him, he reacted so badly. His stress level must be going through the roof by now. Hubby tried also only this time I held him, but as soon as he tried to open his mouth a little he started to gag. Oh I wish he could understand that we are trying to help him." -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.344 / Virus Database: 267.10.17/85 - Release Date: 8/30/2005