Re: Need advice

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Take a tape recorder and plead bad memory, you are too stressed etc to accurately remember the conversation etc.  Ask her if she would mind you taping the conversation.  Bet she will say it is ok.  This may get her to think about what she is saying and make it less confusiong.  By pleading bad memory you are taking on the problem of communications, not laying it on her.  I have a hard time remembering every thing my vet says when things are going ok so the plea is legit.  ----- Original Message ----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Monday, September 12, 2005 4:10 PM Subject: Re: Need advice Oh, Princeton is well over an hour away from me, and I think that the extra driving adds a lot of stress for them, or I would definitely try her. I am not very pleased so far with my new vet. She has a great attitude (talks about trying to help my positives live to 15), is very caring, and even calls me back on the weekends, and also does house calls, so no complaints there. I just do not think she is a great diagnostician so far, and she also gets me really confused by changing what she says all the time and not acknowledging it. But I am afraid to go that far away with them. Michelle In a message dated 9/11/05 9:32:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Dr. Emily Jarvis at Carnegie Cat Clinic in Princeton, NJ.  She's fantastic.  Of course, none of my gang has been sick as they are all negative now.  Salome' is the only one who is "supposedly" positive, but I never had her bone marrow tested, and she's never been sick a day in her life except for once last summer.  She had a horrific URI (went through the house; everyone had it) and she came out of it fine, so I'm inclined to think she's one of those "positives" that is a carrier and not necessarily viremic.  All of the other kitties are negative, vaccinated, and remain negative.