Re: Need advice

[Lernermichelle]

Thanks, Nina. Lucy is actually doing ok. She has blood in her urine, but it is only visible sometimes, and she seems generally ok. I may wait it out until Friday and do the cystocentisis (urine sample via needle) and the bacteria-sensitive culture.    As for Patches, my gut says not to do any oral surgery if she is feeling ok, but I really am not sure about that. She could be having effects from the broken teeth that I can not see.  But for a 5 year old positive, I am inclined to leave well enough alone for fear of triggering the disease. As you know, though, if the broken teeth are painful or are wicking bacteria into her system, this could trigger the disease too. I had not thought of caps.  I think I will do some internet research on whether this is a possibility. Thanks. Michelle   In a message dated 9/13/2005 1:07:44 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Hello Michelle, How is Lucy doing now?  How terrifying to have her symptoms be so pronounced and not be able to do anything for her for a week!  I know how difficult it is to want to do SOMETHING, and not know what the best course is.  The decisions we are forced to make for our oh so dependent loved ones are never easy.  I wish I could give you better advice, but all I can say is listen to your intuition.  Momma really does know best. As far as Patches goes... If her teeth haven't been bothering her, I'd probably leave them the hell alone.  Too bad they can't be filed or capped with out general anesthesia.  If the dentist says he thinks they should be pulled, I'd ask about filling/capping them instead.  At any rate, she's probably better off going through whatever procedure you think necessary while she's healthy. As always, I'm thinking about you and yours, praying for good health for them and clear choices for you. Nina