That's a great idea Nina--you're so right! And, yes, thumbs down to controlling partners. That's why I got my FeLV brood in the first place--the rescuer's husband wouldn't even *let* her keep one out of the 7! And she loved those cats. Feared it would *interfere* with his *leisure time*. (Now I hear they're having their first baby--something that was also decidedly off-limits when I knew them, but hey, accidents happen, right!? He's in for a shock. He'd have been better off allowing her to keep the cats!) :>)
----- Original Message ----- From: "Nina" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[email protected]> Sent: Sunday, September 18, 2005 2:15 AM Subject: Re: 8wk old felv pos needs home ASAP > Has the husband seen the boy and girl together? I've learned to never > expect someone to say, "Why Yes! I want a kitten", when asked, but put > one under their care... Could the situation be manipulated a little > bit? Maybe tell the husband that you need more time to find junior a > home, and would he consider fostering him for a little while? He could > help save his life, etc? Sometimes magic happens and hearts melt, > especially when magic has time to work and little fur balls have time to > wheedle their way into reluctant hearts.. It always baffles me when I > hear a wife say that her husband won't let her, well, won't LET her > anything. Happily, that's not one of the battles I have to wage. > Please let us know what's happening with the little guy. What's his > name btw? > Nina > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > >the wife wants to take both, the hubby is the stumbling block, I'll know for sure by Monday (hopefully) I'll keep you all posted. kristi > >============================================================ > >From: Nina <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > >Date: 2005/09/15 Thu PM 02:19:49 EDT > >To: [email protected] > >Subject: Re: 8wk old felv pos needs home ASAP > > > >Awww, why can't the folks who are adopting the boy take the girl too? > >Thank you for helping her Kristi. Prayers that she finds a wonderful > >home soon. > >Nina > > > >[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > > > > > > >>Hello everyone, sorry i've become strictly a reader, but my b-friend and I are in the middle of buying a house and things are soooo crazy. > >> > >>Anyway to the point....there are 2 8week old positive kittens one male/one female at a kill shelter in Rhode Island. We have a home for the male, but not the female. They have told us that she will be euthanized soon (the end of this week?) if she is not placed. I have contacted a couple other resources but have only gotten a bunch of maybes and we'll sees. So I'm in a tight spot i would like to a least have a definitive back up if the homes we usually place them in do not come through. Can anyone help??? Thanx Kristi > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > >> > > > >============================================================ > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

