Lora--I'm hardly reading/posting right now due to work pressure BUT wanted to say congrats to you and your husband on the about-to-be addition to your family!! And wish you & your existing family much harmony when human baby arrives! PLUS a heartfelt thankyou to you, along with all the other amazing people on this list who do the same, for all the huge amount of time, effort and $$ you devote to homeless and sick animals. What you do is truly wonderful. Kerry
-----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Lora Sent: Wednesday, November 02, 2005 12:19 AM To: [email protected] Subject: Pregnant & Rescue Work I have a question. Well, it is more of looking for some personal advice on an issue. I have been off and on the FeLVtalk list for three (3) years now, but ever since the "Massive Spraying" issue back in 12-14-04 I very rarely receive responses from my posts. It is almost as if me and the group have had a falling out. Before I get started and for clarification purposes, this post is NOT what you may think that it is. No flames please! For those that do not know me, I am a cat-mom who is happily loved by thirteen (13) adorable kitties, ten (10) in which are strictly indoors cats only. Currently all of my kids are FeLV negative. The kitties are not the only fur-kids that we have adopted. Our house is a multi-animal home. Me and my husband have two (2) dogs, a small ten (10) gallon freshwater tank, a horse and twenty-five (25) sugar gliders. (We do sugar glider rescue work as well as feline rescue work.) ALL of my kids have been rescues via straight off of the street, animal control or human societies. I DO NOT BREED. All of my fur-kids have been spayed and/or neutered (including the exotics) at four (4) months of age. We live on six (6) acres of country land. Okay, with all of the "red-tape" out of the way. The reason for this post is because this particular "topic" has come up often in the past and I need some honest and straightforward advice. Me and my husband are expecting with our first child. I am currently six (6) months pregnant and sacrificing any of the fur-kids for our human child is completely OUT OF THE QUESTION. We are NOT going to lose ANY member of our family due to this pregnancy. However, me and my husband are completely aware that the baby will inevitably change the balance of our home's environment and/or atmosphere. Therefore, we are in need of ideas to help the kids through a smooth and safe transition i.e. playing a tape/CD that has baby cries on it so that the fur-kids can become accustomed to the sound, allowing the kids access to the baby's room so that they become familiar with the baby's "smell", etc. Spraying, inappropriate elimination, territorial aggression, jealousy, rejection and avoidance are normal responses to ANY new arrival and/or addition; therefore, me and my husband expect and accept these types of behavioral outbursts. I just did not know if anyone here on the list has ever continued their rescue work while pregnant. If so, how did the transition workout for you? Did your fur-kids eventually come around to "accepting" the new baby or do they just call a truce? Again, this post is not intended to instigate ANY kind of argument! Just looking for some helpful and honest advice from those of you who have experience in this department. Thanks! Lora __________________________________ Yahoo! Mail - PC Magazine Editors' Choice 2005 http://mail.yahoo.com <hr> IRS CIRCULAR 230 NOTICE. Any advice expressed above as to tax matters was neither written nor intended by the sender or Mayer, Brown, Rowe & Maw LLP to be used and cannot be used by any taxpayer for the purpose of avoiding tax penalties that may be imposed under U.S. tax law. If any person uses or refers to any such tax advice in promoting, marketing or recommending a partnership or other entity, investment plan or arrangement to any taxpayer, then (i) the advice was written to support the promotion or marketing (by a person other than Mayer, Brown, Rowe & Maw LLP) of that transaction or matter, and (ii) such taxpayer should seek advice based on the taxpayers particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor <hr> This email and any files transmitted with it are intended solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom they are addressed. If you have received this email in error please notify the system manager. If you are not the named addressee you should not disseminate, distribute or copy this e-mail.
