Hi Wendy,
I have a couple of suggestions for when/if you speak with an AC.  Not every AC can communicate with those that have crossed over.  Make sure whoever you find is comfortable with that.  Only give them the essentials.  Don't feed them any information that they could expand on.  It's actually better for them too.  I can't imagine how they keep the voices of those they are communicating with separate from the their own inner thoughts as it is!  I think that's why it's so difficult for people who do AC to connect with their own animals, or people psychics for that matter.  First they would naturally be more emotional about their own loved ones, and second they know so much about them, it's hard to validate the information as coming from a different source.  If while you're talking to them, nothing is coming through that convinces you they are actually communicating with Cricket, ask them to tell you something specific that only you and Cricket would know.  They won't be insulted if you ask for specific validation, not if they're legit.

Let me tell you a little story about what happened with a recent reading for my dog Vladimir...  A couple of weeks ago, I was in another room when I heard my dog Vladimir scream out in pain.  I went rushing to him and he was in obvious distress.  Every time he turned his head, even slightly, he'd scream again.  Nothing seemed to be broken, and he didn't scream when I touched him, but he was in trouble.  I knew if I rushed him to the ER, they would poke, prod, manipulate his tender neck, take xrays and probably send me home with a huge bill telling me to watch him closely.  There's nothing that anyone can do for soft tissue damage and I didn't want to put Vlad through a painful and stressful exam, if I could help it.  I called the AC I use and happily she had time to do a reading.  I didn't tell her anything except that Vladimir was in pain.  No specifics about what happened, no specifics about what I thought might be going on.  I did that on purpose.  I knew that I wouldn't feel comfortable accepting her assessment of the situation if I wasn't sure she was actually connecting with him.  As far as she was concerned the "pain" could have been a belly ache, or a leg, or whatever.  I was delighted when she honed right in on his neck!  She told me that she didn't see/feel any bone damage, maybe a small chip.  She thought it was a stretched, or torn ligament, or muscle.  She even told me how she thought the accident happened.  By the end of the conversation, she was convinced that it would get better on its own.  I started Vlad on a homeopathic called Traumed, (I had already given him 1/2 of an Ascriptin for pain), kept him quiet and away from the rest of the dogs for the next couple of days and except for squeals of pain when he turned his head the wrong way he seemed to be getting better.  Within 10 days he was back to his normal, active self.  I'm so grateful to have spared the two of us that trip to the vet!  I have more stories of personal experience that have proved the benefits of AC.  I am more than convinced that this is for real.  The main thing is to find someone that you can trust to be accurate and to not give away information that will cause you to question the validation of the answers.

Let us know your experience if you decide to try an AC,
Nina

wendy wrote:
Hey Kat,

I really haven't considered using an AC, partly
because of financial reasons, partly because if I
didn't know the person, I would be extremely skeptical
about their truthfulness.  The baby example was a
great explanation of what you were trying to say about
my own guilt getting in the way of communicating or
being open to a sign.  There's probably a lot of truth
to that.

:)
Wendy

--- Kat <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

  
Dear Wendy,

Have you considered talking with an animal
communicator?

You WILL eventually "talk" with Cricket yourself,
but for
now, you are still too emotionally upset/still
blaming
yourself/feeling guilty/etc, and that can interfere
with
your own communication.

(Sort of like when couples try SO hard to have a
baby but
they can't - and when they finally decide to adopt -
and
there by relax about the whole thing - they get
pregnant.)

Getting some inital closure with an animal
communicator may
just be the ticket for you.

Kat (Mew Jersey)
On Tue, 17 Jan 2006, wendy wrote:

    
Date: Tue, 17 Jan 2006 08:26:08 -0800 (PST)
From: wendy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
Reply-To: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Subject: OT: Dreams

Hi guys,

I wanted to ask everyone's opinions/thoughts on
dreaming about kitties you have lost.  I know it's
      
OT,
    
but I have a hard enough time keeping up with the
posts here, so joining the OT list is not an
      
option
    
for me time-wise.

Since Cricket has passed, I have continued to look
      
for
    
signs from him letting me know he's ok.  The best
      
I
    
have gotten is a dismembered cricket that my other
      
two
    
kitties left by my bed a day or so after he
      
passed,
    
which was weird because I haven't seen any other
crickets anywhere, inside or out this year.

A couple of nights ago, I dreamed I was walking
      
around
    
everywhere calling for Cricket.  I couldn't find
      
him
    
anywhere and kept finding myself in all these
different places.  Rolling hillsides, snow-covered
forests, places I didn't recognize.  The dream was
      
so
    
real.  And all I did was call for Cricket the
      
whole
    
time, like I used to when he would sneak out of
      
the
    
backyard when I wasn't paying attention so he
      
could
    
explore the neighborhood.  "Crickeeee, Crickeee,"
      
over
    
and over and over.  I started panicking in my
      
dream,
    
and of course when I woke up, I got upset because
      
I
    
knew the reason I couldn't find him in my dream
      
was
    
that he was dead.  It really disturbed me.

Apparently, I still need closure.  I still have
      
guilt
    
over Cricket's passing, even though I know the
      
facts.
    
I am disappointed that I haven't seen or heard
something that lets me know he's ok and that he
      
isn't
    
mad at me.  Do you guys have any idea what that
      
dream
    
meant, and also, what's a good way for me to get
closure as I think about it a lot?

Thanks for any advice or thoughts you have,
:)
Wendy



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