Re: Way Off Subject of Cats....sorry!

[clawsnpaws]

Oh lord!  Your poor daughter.  Thank God she has such wonderful supportive parents!!!   Having been married to a military man for nearly 15 years, I have witnessed my fair share of cases like this and had my husband spaz out and pull similar stunts (though we have no children - just pets and property).  There were always duty related emotional issues that initiated it.   Your daughter needs to FILE FOR CHILD SUPPORT NOW!  She does not have to wait for divorce proceedings. ALL military pay and allowances (like housing) are considered income when it comes to calculating child support and alimony.  Please tell her not to wait.  Most child support offices will not drag their feet with military wives who do not work when their spouses abandon them.    The military requires enlisted to be responsible for financially supporting their families. A soldier who fails to support his or her family may face not only civilian legal problems, they also violate the punitive provisions of AR 608-99 and may face punishment under Article 92 of the Uniform Code of Military Justice. HE IS SCREWING HIMSELF BIG TIME!!!!!   You can go to this site for specifics on child support and branches of the military:   http://www.jagcnet.army.mil/JAGCNETInternet/Homepages/AC/Legal%20Assistance%20Home%20Page.nsf/0/d3feb7e9945926a9852569100056f8f9   She also needs to go to the Family Support Center, specifically the Family Advocacy department.  Get them involved.  Avoid the CO and wives at this point, move on to bigger and more powerful beings, who will file official reports, not just talk and sweep things under the rug.    Keep us updated.  I hope she has good luck with the attorney on Friday!   ~ Rachel     Operation Foster Felix www.operationfosterfelix.org Sharing Our Hearts, Homes & Litter Boxes    "If you talk to the animals they will talk with you and you will know each other.  If you do not talk to them you will not know them, and what you do not know you will fear. What one fears one destroys." --Chief Dan George ----- Original Message ----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org Sent: Wednesday, May 10, 2006 1:36 PM Subject: Re: Way Off Subject of Cats....sorry! I want to thank those that have responded your information is greatly appreciated and will be used for researching.   I found he did this through a paralegal, so at this time he has no attorney working for him...yet! If he would have sat down with her and worked it out everything would have been done easily. It would have been cheaper in the long run. He snuck behind her back and paid for advise ($400) to do this. He has also cleaned out the bank accts. But by him filing she can't leave the state until the divorce is settled. Yet, he wants her gone a.s.a.p. but won't help her. She has no income. She has ask him to hold off on the papers that were filed so she can come home. He continues to help himself by going into the home when she isn't there and taking items of value. We will help her but we can't do a thing until she sees an attorney herself. Like getting a counter suit filed against him. She has a appt with female attorney friday at 10am that used to be the DA and has interest in cases like this. Hopefully she will help my daughter.   She has met with one of the wives of the CO and SGTs they are suppose to talk with the husband sometime today.   Guess we will see what happens.....   :(   Terrie Mohr-Forker TAZZY'S ANIMAL TRANSPORTS SIAMESE & COLLIE RESCUE Owner/Driver Check sites for available Siameses for adoption! http://www.tazzys-siameses-collies.petfinder.org/ Click Here to Join WASHINGTON SIAMESE RESCUE Yahoo Group! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wasiameserescue http://hometown.aol.com/tatorbunz/index.html http://hometown.aol.com/tatorbunz/myhomepage/petmemorial.html Petfinder.com Adopt a Homeless Pet! http://www.petfinder.com/ http://www.felineleukemia.org/ http://www.petloss.com/ TAZZY'S ANIMAL TRANSPORTS https://www.paypal.com/ http://www.frappr.com/wasiameserescue