Dear Chris, I am so sorry you lost Mylo. It takes time to grieve and allow yourself the full feelings of missing him. At some point you will know in your heart and remember the joyous times you had. But now, just let yourself miss him. The other feelings will come in time. Take care, Gina
Chris Ramzy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Thank you for your email and everyone on the list that has offered kind, supportive words. I guess the best way to look at it is to cherish and remember the joy they brought to our lives and that should out-way letting them go. Ideally, that would be a good way to look at it, but we all know that can be difficult at times. So we just need to tell ourselves it was worth it. I'm glad Mylo was in my life. Maybe if he was with another family then he may have not been as loved...who knows. Maybe I made his life a bit better than it would have been otherwise and for that I have to say....it was worth it. Chris >From: Paolo >Reply-To: [email protected] >To: [email protected] >Subject: Re: Mylo's Passing >Date: Thu, 01 Feb 2007 16:06:59 +0100 > >Chris, I too went through that, too much times... and every time, >one just cannot believe it hurts so much, and to bear it once more seems >impossible... but... >Today, while I was at the vet's with Rompi, there was a lady with a >black kitty, female, two years old, with asthma... she was black with >a small white whiff under her neck... she was just so MAGIC, with that >look in her eyes, so tender... the look of "the good cat". I was about to >steal her right there! :) In that moment I understood that, >notwithstanding anything, it's impossible to live without cats, and that >the horrible, exhausting experience of "letting them go" is the toll for >what we have received from them during their life. We could discuss if >that toll is fair or too high, but that's it. > >Paolo >P.S. I'm going to call the vet's to ask when the black kitty with asthma >is scheduled next time... ;) > _________________________________________________________________ Windows Live Spaces: share your New Year pictures! http://discoverspaces.live.com/?loc=en-CA Visit my Tigger Tales site! --------------------------------- We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love (and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list.
