You know I agree with you and I wish all adopters would go to the sometimes great lengths that some of us do for our furbabies. The problem is that whether or not we think it has not been long enough, SHE feels it has been long enough. I think if he weren't so affectionate and sweet during the daytime she may have already returned him. In this case it may be better for him to come back to me, so that perhaps one day in months or years he can be adopted out with another cat, but I'm not sure. My house has sufficient cats in it that it is not the ideal environment for most cats. I would love to keep them all, but I can't do that and do rescue.
I'm just really, really frustrated right now. On 3/19/07, [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
Unfortunately your crowded little house probably made him feel more secure. He will have been aware of the other cats and could even be crying to try and communicate with the other cats and be distressed because they are not there. He is obviously distressed and I feel like everyone else needs time to adapt - any animal needs time to settle in a new home and it's only fair we let them do that. I think Feliway and rescue remedy are a good place to start. The space of his new home and like of crowdedness is possibly freaking him out. Poor little guy - hope he settles down xxx and although having disturbed sleep isn't good I think any adopter should be prepared to have disturbed sleep whilst the new furbaby settles - you wouldn't get people taking adopted human babies back to where they got them from because they cry in the night - they would be up comforting them - animals deserve the same compasion in my eyes. Michelle, Buddy, Minstrel & Angel Bramble
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