I don't know. I Have called her this morning and left a message.
On 3/18/07, Pam Norman <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
But does he lie in bed with her while the light is on & she is still basically up? When does he start pacing relative to her turning off the light & going to sleep, or trying to? Pam Kelley Saveika wrote: > He lies with her in bed for about 20-30 minutes, then gets bored and > starts pacing and crying until 5 am, when apparently he gets tired of > crying and stops. I odn'tk now about the ligths. > > On 3/18/07, *Pam Norman* <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> wrote: > > That's why I was asking. I would go further than nightlights & try > leaving a light on in the bathroom perhaps. And I'm still curious > as to > what he is doing & where when she turns out the light for the night. > Does the crying start then or later? > > Pam > > Leslie Lawther wrote: > > *Lighting is a good question... We have pathway lighting (night > lights > > that angle down to the ground) all through the house for the cats. > > Even though they are nocturnal, they still do no have the best > > eyesight. Maybe she could try some nightlights for him? * > > *Leslie =^..^=* > > > > > > On 3/18/07, *Pam Norman* <[EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>>> > wrote: > > > > Kelley, > > > > Are there any other pets in the household? > > > > Also what do they (the woman & the kitty) do just before she > turns > > out > > the light? Is he with her on the bed? Napping? > Dozing? What happens > > when she turns out the light? When she turns off her > light, at that > > point are ALL the lights in the house off? > > > > Pam > > > > > > > > Kelley Saveika wrote: > > > Nina, > > > > > > he can sleep whereever he wants. She says he gets in bed with > > her for > > > 20-30 minutes, then gets tired of that and gets out of bed and > > starts > > > pacing and crying and does that until 5 am.. It almost > broke my > > heart. > > > > > > She says she can't live without sleep forever, and I see > her point. > > > He apparently stops crying about 5 am, and she gets to > sleep for 2 > > > hours. That's not a good schedule for a working > person. She works > > > half a day on Friday and took a nap after getting > home. He allowed > > > her to sleep then. She says this weekend she has been > sleeping > > from 5 > > > am to 11 am, but she cant' do that during the week. > > > > > > Everyone isn't us, Nina. I wish they were, it would be so > much > > > easier. I can't keep all these cats either - if I do I > can't do > > > rescue. Though I am frustrated and aggravated right now > and not > > > wanting to do rescue at the moment. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > On 3/18/07, *Nina* < [EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> > > > <mailto: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>>>> wrote: > > > > > > Kelley, > > > Just by your brief explanation it sounds like this guy is > > confused and > > > scared. Since he's affectionate during the day, and you > > hinted that > > > she's not giving him attention at night, I'm guessing > he's > > calling out > > > for reassurance. Do you remember me telling the list > about > > Sophie > > > Matilda? I had her confined to a bathroom because > she's cat > > > aggressive. She cried day and night, (but it was > worse at > > night), and > > > would only settle down when I was with her. This went on > > for what > > > seemed like years, but was really only days. I got very > > little sleep, > > > (sleeping on a bathroom floor is not so great for my > aching back > > > either). The scariest and most upsetting part for me was > > wondering if > > > she would ever stop. She actually cried herself > hoarse. Well, > > > she did > > > settle down and start to feel safe and at home. > > > > > > Give us more details. Is this kitty free to sleep > with his > > new mom or > > > is she locking him out of her room at night? See if > you can > > get the > > > adopter to give him more time. You know, set a time limit > > to see if > > > once he acclimates to his new surroundings and knows > that he's > > > home for > > > good he'll stop crying. If she'll give him just one more > > week, he may > > > be just fine. What's one week without sleep compared > to the > > rest of > > > their lives together? Poor little guy, he deserves to > have > > his human > > > give him this consideration, I hope that she does. > > > Nina > > > > > > Kelley Saveika wrote: > > > > > > > > Hi all, > > > > > > > > I adopted out a cat on Thursday night. The adopter > called > > me today > > > > and said he has been crying all night every night > and she > > hasn't > > > been > > > > able to sleep at all. He is fine during the day, very > > affectionate, > > > > likes to give her kisses, but he will not let her > > sleep. I need > > > > suggestions, or else this adopter will return this > > cat. As he's a > > > > black cat, he is not going to have too many > options. She > > is not > > > > petting him when he is crying. He is eating and > using the > > > litterbox. > > > > I don't know how to get this adopter past this. She's > > willing > > > to try > > > > things for a few more days, but I don't think much > longer > > than that. > > > > > > > > Kelley > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. > > > > > > > > http://www.rescuties.org > > > > > > > > Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! > > > > > > > > http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. > > > > > > http://www.rescuties.org <http://www.rescuties.org > <http://www.rescuties.org>> > > > > > > Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! > > > > > > http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20 > > > > > > > > > > > > -- > > Leslie =^..^= > > > > To leave the world a better place - whether by a healthy child, a > > garden patch, or an improved social condition - that is to have > > succeeded. That only one life breathed easier because you lived - > > that is success. > > ---Ralph Waldo Emerson > > > > > > -- > Rescuties - Saving the world, one cat at a time. > > http://www.rescuties.org > > Vist the Rescuties store and save a kitty life! > > http://astore.amazon.com/rescuties-20
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