Mary,
There have been concerns raised with the use of valium for kitties.
I've used the appetite stimulant Cyproheptadine made into a transdermal
gel to be applied to the inside tip of a cat's ear. It's much less
stressful to administer a drug in this way than forcing them to ingest
it. I strongly suggest that you speak to your vet about the different
options that would be appropriate in helping Cakooie begin eating and
for further diagnostic/treatment plans. I would also suggest that you
ask your regular vet for a referral to a board certified Internist
specialized in the care of cats. While we on the list are well meaning
in offering suggestions that might benefit you and your cat, you need to
seek the advice of a professional who will be better able to advise you
on protocols and medications indicated. Print out our emails and
archive suggestions and arm yourself with questions on how to best help
your Cakooie. Please make the appointment asap.
Nina