Yah. This is my late dad, the great withholder of stuff "because you didn't ask ME." But I digress. It's sort of telling that the guy asked to speak to your husband. It's a certain mentality.
Diane R. -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Nina Sent: Tuesday, May 29, 2007 1:39 PM To: [email protected] Subject: Re: OT: Neighbor threatens ferals Believe me, my first reaction would be to retaliate in kind to this creep, but... Even if the wife did speak english fluently, you're probably better off approaching the husband. Your objective is to make him feel important and it's my guess that he doesn't respect his wife's opinion about things anyway. Men like this usually respond to other men better than women, but he might also like the feeling of power he gets from you appealing to him to "indulge" your love of animals. The whole thing makes me nauseous just thinking about it. Nina Stray Cat Alliance wrote: > Thank you all for your wonderful suggestions! I did get my husband to > write down what the neighbor said to him yesterday -- but it is a good > idea to write down everything and dates. I will do my best to muster > up niceness when I want to scream and talk to the neighbor. The wife > doesn't speak very good English so I don't think she'd be a good option. > > I really can't trap everybody and relocate...and an enclosure wouldn't > work where I live now so I am hoping and praying for a positive > resolution for all. > > Thank you again, will keep you posted. > > Anita > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Change is good. See what's different about Windows Live Hotmail. Check > it out! > <www.windowslive-hotmail.com/learnmore/default.html?locale=en-us&ocid=RM T_TAGLM_HMWL_reten_changegood_0507> This electronic mail transmission and any attachments are confidential and may be privileged. They should be read or retained only by the intended recipient. If you have received this transmission in error, please notify the sender immediately and delete the transmission from your system. In addition, in order to comply with Treasury Circular 230, we are required to inform you that unless we have specifically stated to the contrary in writing, any advice we provide in this email or any attachment concerning federal tax issues or submissions is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, to avoid federal tax penalties.

