Hi Glenda! I went through the exact same thing. I was getting the posts, yet I couldn't get anything posted for over 2 months. Sometimes when I send a message I get the same response-that the message will go to the moderator and might be posted. None of them ever were. At the beginning I was begging for help and words fail me to how upset I was that I couldn't get help from the group that seemed to know the most. I kept reading and I learned a great deal. I also kept trying to send a message and eventually they finally were posted. My advise is be persistent because this group is a lifeline, especially if you are just learning how to help your feline friend that has this hideous virus.
Malone