I was in Louisville with Dixie (I have a home there) and I had the
luxury of time....my wonderful vets at Middletown Animal Clinic were
choking when they phoned me with the news. They kept Dixie safe (I am
very sure Dixie didn't feel safe) while I tried to work things out in
my mind and for her here in the country. It wasn't ideal. She stayed
in a garage for a while and, when she developed a URI, I slept in the
garage with her. Time is important. When Dixie left this world she
had EVERYTHING!!!!! A big bed in a house on a farm that was designed
for cats (wide windowsills, lots of windows, a Person who really
didn't care if she scratched the floors (pine so there was never a
question of messing up the carpet) etc., travel to Louisville, a
Christmas tree designed to her standards (I accept animal
communicators and she got a 10 foot tall tree with thousands of lights
and hundreds of ornaments and...........needless to say lots of
presents). All of this is to say, her life with me was too short.
She was several years old when this happened and had been spayed
although we never found a scar (I spent a LOT of money having
bloodwork done---she kept telling the AC she had been spayed---she
had). But she had everything I even thought she might possibly want.
Hopefully that made up for the life she had before. A month after she
left she sent me a kitten. Two weeks later she sent another one.
Both are very healthy and wonderful boys....each twice Dixie's size.
Again, all of this is to say, enjoy Whimsy and don't worry too much.
Throw away your calendars (this applies to your other cats too) and
enjoy your time together. I had another cat, Kitty, who had terminal
cancer. I let her and Dixie together. Neither was going to shorten
the life of the other. My wonderful vets told me with Kitty and with
Dixie to make my decisions (and they were brutally honest and applied
the standards they wanted applied to their lives as I did) and not
Peace to all of your friends and to you. I know this is rambling.
Dixie left two years ago and I still miss my wonderful girl. The two
boys she sent me stay close and were not eaten by the hawk family....
On Feb 24, 2010, at 5:54 PM, Emeraldkittee wrote:
hi Cougar Clan and Dixie-the-Angel-Cat,
Oh, thank you for writing! it warmed my heart! I just came in from
having 'dinner w/ Whimsy' and he looks at me so longingly now when I
leave him. He's even letting me cut the horrible mattings out of
his very long fur now.
Dixie sounds like she was so dear and special, and I am sure the
holistic approach aided her tremendously. I wish I had done blood
work that day, but when they gave me the news and urged me to put
him to sleep and not bother to do the IFA even, I forgot about the
chipping, blood work etc. I did put to sleep a beautiful FeLV girl,
Gypsy, last year because I was told it was the only thing to do and
it appeared she had tumors in her mouth and ears. It never sat
right with me, and I regretted it so deeply. I have found out that
on this street/block, most ferals have had FeLV going back 20 yrs
here. There aren't even colonies, but just random cats - I will see
about 3 every year and TNR the ones I can. It seems like a very
high rate. One bully male "Sargeant" lasted in the area nearly 3
yrs - very wild - I just saw him in Dec and he was suffering
terribly, emaciated, coughing and staggering, but I could not trap
him to help him and ease his
suffering. I am sure he passed from FeLV. I did witness him
attacking Whimsy, who is very passive, and I chased him off. I
cringe to think Whimsy might suddenly disappear and I wouldn't be
there to help him when it 'was time'.
I hope I can get my guy to agree. paws crossed. Thank you for your
input so very much.
Shannon and Whimsy
--- On Wed, 2/24/10, Cougar Clan <maima...@duo-county.com> wrote:
From: Cougar Clan <maima...@duo-county.com>
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] intro
Date: Wednesday, February 24, 2010, 4:01 PM
The sunroom would be a wonderful solution. Others on this list can
address the health issues. If he is separated, I would not be
concerned personally. I would have a baseline blood test done (your
vet may have already done this.) A few years ago Dixie came into my
life much the way Whimsy has come into yours. She was the most
wonderful little girl. She remained with me for 3 years. I took
her into be spayed and got the awful FeLV news. At that time she
was scheduled to be a farm/porch cat. She was a garage cat for a
while then became a house cat. I took her to a holistic vet who is
totally wonderful and who helped Dixie live a full life until her
last minutes. Bless you for taking care of Whimsy. Please bring
him into the sunroom. You will enjoy it as much as he does but know
that he may hide for a while. New smells, sounds and such.
On Feb 24, 2010, at 12:09 PM, Emeraldkittee wrote:
I just joined this group - not sure how active it is, but I was
thrilled to find the site.
I've been taking care of a feral turned 'could be housecat' for 6
months. Finally I was able to trap "Whimsy" and got him fixed,
etc. He turned out to be FeLV positive, but seemingly
asymptomatic. We did not do a blood work as initially this was to
be a TNR. He is approx 1 1/2 yrs old. I have other inside
kitties, so after hearing the FeLV news it wasn't an option to
bring him in, but I also refused to put him down. He does still
live outside, but won't stay in the numerous shelters I have put
out for him any longer due to possums moving into them. He hangs
out in the yard most of the time, despite the cold Midwest weather,
and is fed twice a day. Since his fixing 4 wks ago, he's become
even sweeter, almost babyish and refuses to get off my lap when
it's time for me to go inside. He's a real climber, jumper, I
often see him on roofs and in trees. He was popcorning all over
the place at the vet's - though I got him to walk into the
carrier, he had to be sedated once there after a near escape.
my question: I have a sun room that I could put him in, if my
partner agrees, but what risk is there to my other kitties, a few
with their own issues (FIV, HCM, CRF, lung issues, allergies). I
am not super concerned about FeLV being spread since they'd be
separated(unlikely) but other things Whimsy might have - like
Panleuk. I have never been able to get a stool sample from him.
what other scary things are possible? how do I ensure he won't have
I did confirm the ELISA with an IFA, and it was positive. This is
'stage 5 or 6', then?
His health issues have been: bouts of no appetitite in Dec
coinciding with a runny eye and wound on chest. I got him on
antibiotics and it took a good 2 wks, but the eye cleared and his
appetite was back. He's had some not eating issues lately, but
seems more concerned I coax him and sit with him while he eats.
Pepcid helps slightly. He's also been on an immune booster for a
He used to be a dodgy feral and now tries to rub his face on mine -
he's come such a long way. I would love to hear any opinions or
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