Rachel please don’t apologize - I can't speak for everyone else - but I'll bet everyone has walked in your shoes - you have every right to be upset - it is a shame everyone doesn't understand - but this group does. Hang in there.
Sandy W

-----Original Message----- From: Rachel Dagner
Sent: Thursday, May 05, 2016 8:39 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless

That is wonderful they stayed negative. My mom told me not to take in anymore strays after what I have been through with Tucker. And I admit it has been so hard and sad and stressful, not to mention crazy expensive. But if Tucker goes (ok now I am crying again!) , if another cat comes along and looks at me and asks for help I wouldn't hesitate, through health problems, heartache or whatever. I joined another support group today for lymphoma and I have gotten the opposite of support because I don't have him on chemo. I feel like I have gotten the opposite of support everywhere I have turned online, except my friends and family. I feel really hurt by how unfeeling humans can be. I guess that's why I love animals so much. Tucker is out here on my screened porch with me happy as a clam, probably wondering why I can't quit crying. It's time for me to give him his worst parent in the world treatment. Maybe I should get off of all of these "support" groups. They are making me miserable. Sorry, I know I totally barged in and vented on this post. I am just feeling really upset.

Sent from my iPhone

On May 5, 2016, at 8:10 PM, <[email protected]> <[email protected]> wrote:

I mix my positive with my 3 negatives and for 5 years, none of them have turned. I agree that if she turned them over, he/she would be euthanized just because of the FELV. It is a shame that more vets are not up to date on info about this.


---- "Katherine K." <[email protected]> wrote:
I messaged with someone from the group who has talked to Sharon, although
not in the last couple of days. She does not want to surrender her animals to Charleston Animal Society because they would require her to sign a form
stating they could be euthanized if sick. She most likely has the FeLV
positive cat mixed with the negatives. The positive cat needs vet care. She
needs to rehome some of her pets because there are pet limits for most of
the housing assistance places that were suggested by this other person. The
positive cat is probably the least likely to find a home  (Assuming the
other 4 are still negative) so maybe folks on this list can help network
him. He is 9 yrs old, tuxedo, named Thomas. If you'd like a photo, email me
off list.

Thank you Amani and Margo for your help so far!

On Thu, May 5, 2016 at 2:13 PM, Rachel Dagner <[email protected]> wrote:

I just looked up Rustic Hollow, what a wonderful place! I wish I could quit
my job and go live there myself! Or if one of these darn lotto tickets
would
come through I could start my own maybe Sandy Paws of Florida.

-----Original Message-----
From: Felvtalk [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of
[email protected]
Sent: Thursday, May 05, 2016 1:57 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless

How well I know.  Having to pay for a new roof hs put me close to that
point. I am minding my finances and not buying anything until I get past
the roof, hospital (fell and broke arm)copays.  It can happen so fast.
When
I get bck on my feet, will try to help her.  This has been my greatest
fear,
what would happen to my 4 cats if something hqppened to me. Trying to set
up an account to transport them to Rustic Hollow and pay for their care
when
they get there.

---- Amani Oakley <[email protected]> wrote:
Hi Margo

I intend to raise enough money to give them a decent enough cushion to
pay
for those monthly amounts, for at least one year, and hopefully two. I am
great at online auctions, so if they have those in the nearby
communities,
I can easily pick up good furniture/dishes, etc., for low numbers, so
that
shouldn’t be a big issue.

I figure that this woman was renting so there must be some source of
money
in the future. If she and her son have enough of a cushion, this helps
people catch their breath and get back on their feet. It is easy to get a
little bit behind every week on bills and expenses, until suddenly it
becomes an insurmountable amount. If she was looking after these animals
and her son, there was obviously some money for food, etc.

Amani



From: Felvtalk [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of
Margo
Sent: May-05-16 12:01 PM
To: [email protected]
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless


I will be happy to help (although humans aren't usually my thing <g>).

My concern is how the family will cope in the future. Can they afford the
$350 a month, plus utilities, food and pet food? Would this be "rented"
to
them, or lent, or rent with option? I'm not trying to be a wet blanket,
but even tho I'm also in SC, I'm to far to be of actual on-site use.

I just want to try to make this a re-homing, not just a foster situation.
Told you people aren't my forte...

Margo
-----Original Message-----
From: Amani Oakley
Sent: May 5, 2016 11:32 AM
To: "[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>"
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless


Hi Katherine

I have not heard from Sharon, but I have heard back from my former client in South Carolina, who has done a lot of research for me (bless her soul)
and come up with a number of options. The best one she presented to me
was
a 2 bedroom used mobile home in Summerville for about $7,000 U.S. This is obviously quite inexpensive, and she says it probably needs new carpeting
and a new air conditioning system, but probably for about $10,000 to
$12,000 U.S., with furniture, it is a good option. There is also a
monthly
fee for the lot, which is usually around $350 a month but it is already
in
a trailer park and wouldn’t have to be moved.

This is a totally do-able target number for me. If I can hear from her
regarding whether she is in favour of this option, I can get to work to
get that mobile home for her.

I hate to rely upon you to be the go-between, and if you are unable to do
that, I will have to venture onto Facebook, regardless of my concerns.
Let
me know.

Amani

From: Felvtalk [mailto:[email protected]] On Behalf Of
Katherine K.
Sent: May-03-16 1:18 PM
To: [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless

I hear you. I will private message her. I did find a GoFundMe page she
started -- without much luck it seems.

On Tue, May 3, 2016 at 1:13 PM, Amani Oakley
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
Katherine

I don’t go on Facebook very often. I will try to get to it but I am not
very comfortable with it – they keep way too much of your personal
information and track everything about you. Can you privately message her
and provide her with my email address? I don’t want it posted publicly
since obviously, every single person in the world with a difficult
situation will be contacting me and I harbour enough guilt in my soul as
it is.

Is there someone else in South Carolina, close to her, with whom I can
collaborate to perhaps find a used trailer she can live in with the
animals and her son? I would be willing to spearhead some fundraising.

Amani

From: Felvtalk
[mailto:[email protected]<mailto:
[email protected]>]
On Behalf Of Katherine K.
Sent: May-03-16 1:07 PM

To: [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless

Hi Amani,

Thanks for your message. I don't have an email or phone number for Sharon
Follin Jowers, but if you are on Facebook, you can see the full
conversation by joining the "Owners of FeLV+/FIV+ cats" group. It's a
private group, so you need to join the group to see it.

Once you are a member this link will take you to it:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/26073442228/permalink/10154196067502229/
.

Katherine

On Tue, May 3, 2016 at 12:58 PM, Amani Oakley
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
Katherine

I’m up in Canada so I can’t do much about finding a new home for the
animals. However, I would like to see if we might be able to do something
more permanent for a person with a good heart who keeps animals like
this.
Can you put me in touch with her? Can you get more details?

Amani

From: Felvtalk
[mailto:[email protected]<mailto:
[email protected]>]
On Behalf Of Katherine K.
Sent: May-03-16 7:21 AM
To: [email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [Felvtalk] FeLV cat in Charleston - owner is homeless


She lives in a motel room with five cats, a dog and I think her adult son too. I think efforts have been made to raise money for a rent deposit in
the past for her but I am unclear on the history. She just posted a
request for help with rehoming her animal(s).

The FeLV cat has some blood in his stool but sounds healthy and playful
otherwise.

Any Charleston resources or rescues that I could pass along?
On May 3, 2016 2:57 AM, "Amani Oakley"
<[email protected]<mailto:[email protected]>> wrote:
Katherine

Is it too late to help the owner keep her house?

Amani


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