I'm hoping the situation is just that the rescue group doesn't know you and
might have recently had some problems with other foster moms who were not as
conscientious as you. (shelter i work with sometimes- once had foster family
who painted 7 black kittens with nail polish so they could distinguish them
for medication purposes--but on their fur! and returned them to the shelter
full of fleas and other problems....I always try to tell people who have not
had a positive experience with any rescue group to try to remember that the
rescue people do not know you personally. never been to your house for
dinner, etc. and that they mostly have met alot of not so good people. (my
favorite has to be the one who started screaming at me why couldn't they
adopt a female puppy just because they had an un neutered male dog in their
house? and I was just in the parking lot carrying in stacks of
newspaper--the yeller didn't even know I volunteered there)
We here know you are the absolute greatest person in the world to socialize
these foster kitties but alas, your "friend" has taken that decision out of
your hands. Hope it all works out for everyone.
barbara
