Re: I told my son

[Wheezercat42]

I still cry sometimes when I look at pictures of the ones I've lost.  All cats are special, some are a little more special than others.  Some hurts take a long time to heal, but they do heal eventually.    Grieving is a process, and each loss takes it's own time to work through for each person.  We have to walk through the center of our grief to move on.  If we try to walk around the edges (to avoid the worst of the pain of the loss) we end up going in circles.  Sometimes, that can keep us from healing completely.   Tears are good.   Kathy