How many records is considered "too large" for a datagrid to handle? I am using Flex 4 with Zend AMF & paging enabled. When I google it the topic, most seem to think that a "few thousand" is large, but that doesn't seem hardly anything to me. I thought Zend would do the trick but it isn't anywhere near what I need. My 15 million records didn't go over too well (I can use the scroll wheel on my mouse to scroll through the records but it kept crashing when I tried to use the scrollbar on the datagrid to jump around). I ask because I don't want to have to jimmy around with code until I'm blue in the face trying to find something flex can handle. Can I do 1 million? 5,000? 500,000? I just want to be able to let users play around w/ the scrollbar on the datagrid without it crashing, is all (though I realize that the user's machine will play a big factor in performance. All of my users have computers that are no more than a couple yrs old)
I also ask because I am sure others would like to know for their projects....is there a more efficient way to get the data than Zend, like Livecycle or Coldfusion? I am willing to switch the backend up a bit in order to increase performance of my app. many thanks!

