Quoting Kathy Forer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>:

> Fuck that shit! This is what I think. It's complicated and I wasn't
> sure who was who*, but what I said makes the most sense to me.
> 

You said what you think, but you were trying to make sure I was impressed and 
suitably silenced by what you think (a suppression?).  I can assure you that if 
you had just expressed your concern for suppression of legitmate voices, I 
would have taken you seriously without the need for power strategies designed 
to reduce my state.  

> How does telling the truth the way I see it -- given the history we've
> attempted to establish here of open dialogue without concern for civil
> polity -- beat up on anyone in particular? Who are you protecting?

I am not protecting anyone specifically. However, you were not *just* telling 
the truth the way you see it, you were attempting to *force* its acceptance. 

> Are you saying no one can be "beaten" unless they are insecure?
> What do you mean by beaten, who was beaten? You, joseph & donna, or
> karei? Or, are there two different subjects, the one accused of NOT
> having deep seated insecurities and the other already beaten?

No - I was just pointing out that the "Dear xxx" strategy is only successful 
against opponents with insecurity, as it depends upon them succombing in the 
face of disdain.  I haven't treated you with disdain, why are you treating me 
with such? Not that I am asking for kind treatment, I am more than capable 
of "defending" myself, however I would prefer it otherwise. 

> How is that?
> Creating and maintaining a persona can be a very dangerous game.
> Sometimes it's kinder not to play.
> 

How about this...I am a very large man - perhaps we should as a society allow 
me to walk to the first position in any line I choose to stand in.  There is no 
law against it, and if you tried to shove me out of the way, I first could not 
be budged and second could have you arrested for assault. 

> Yes, a voice was lost. In a bottomless wallow. Of what I'm not sure,
> but our feeding it just made it worse. "Nothing that would further"
> given the situation as it was.

Again, the voice was not lost. Unless you want to murder the original before 
it is heard, a voice will find a way to live.  If you feel it must be defeated, 
you should confront it and deal with what it has to say. 

> I feel badly for the death monster, our creation or hers.** But not so
> badly that I'd want to continue to support it as it grew to be
> something else entirely, something ugly and tiresome. The wizard of oz
> without toto.

You are judging and convicting based upon a small sliver of time. While I don't 
agree with all that K+ does, I find quite a bit of usefulness (and beauty) in 
what he has to say.  

joseph & donna
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joseph franklyn mcelroy 
corporate performance artist www.corporatepa.com 

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Quoting Kathy Forer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>:

> 
> On Thursday, January 9, 2003, at 12:38  AM, joseph (yes=no & yes<>no)
> wrote:
> 
> > Quoting Kathy Forer <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>:
> >
> >> She really had you fooled, dear Echo.
> >>
> >
> > Hi Kathy, are you trying to maintain a voice of superior reason?
> 
> Fuck that shit! This is what I think. It's complicated and I wasn't
> sure who was who*, but what I said makes the most sense to me.
> 
> It's my story. And I'll stick with it. On a, er, purely subjective
> basis.
> 
> >  The dear xxxx
> > strategy is only useful against people with deep seated
> > insecurities...and all
> > you accomplish is beating up on somebody who is already beaten.
> 
> How does telling the truth the way I see it -- given the history we've
> attempted to establish here of open dialogue without concern for civil
> polity -- beat up on anyone in particular? Who are you protecting?
> 
> I meant "dear," for the nymphs all loved Narcissus.
> 
> Are you saying no one can be "beaten" unless they are insecure?
> What do you mean by beaten, who was beaten? You, joseph & donna, or
> karei? Or, are there two different subjects, the one accused of NOT
> having deep seated insecurities and the other already beaten?
> 
> > It sort of
> > makes you cruel, don't you think?
> 
> How is that?
> Creating and maintaining a persona can be a very dangerous game.
> Sometimes it's kinder not to play.
> 
> >
> >> The only legitimate voice lost was hers, and ours reflected in hers
> >> and
> >> hers reflecting hers back again. Ad nauseum. Allen threw that
> >> babycheeks out with the bath water -- where it belongs.
> >
> > Do you think that a voice was lost? It seems more like hands over the
> > ears to
> > me.
> 
> Whose hands over whose ears? If it was ours, well, for a good reason.
> Kandinskij walks in, posts a couple of interesting but un-remarked upon
> links, Eryk says he's "off this list, too." K replies "Have a nice
> time?" You interject a pleasant (or not: was it code?) ditty about
> watermelons and summer. K replies "Nobody was speaking to you" and the
> list is shortly subsumed by one person.
> 
> At one point early on, Roger replies "Anything addressed to Fluxlist is
> to everyone." You concur... and K replies
>       You may disagree, but that is based only into your own narcissism.
>       And reality doesn't revolve around your "I" and the nonsense you attach
>       to it.
> and again
>       Avoida ttempting to dictate your ego, psychotic murderous ape.
> 
> And my perception, if I'm allowed to accept and honor it, was that the
> mouldering list was subsumed by K's attempts to break down the
> (apparent) impenetrability of an ego-wall with whatever tactics are at
> hand. In this case, narcissistic self-absorption.
> 
> Yes, a voice was lost. In a bottomless wallow. Of what I'm not sure,
> but our feeding it just made it worse. "Nothing that would further"
> given the situation as it was.
> 
>       The greatest mental trap is a worldview that insists upon its
> uniqueness and
>       correctness.  You, my friend, are trapped. [From: "joseph (yes)"]
> 
> No need to prolong the pain. Anyone's.
> I feel badly for the death monster, our creation or hers.** But not so
> badly that I'd want to continue to support it as it grew to be
> something else entirely, something ugly and tiresome. The wizard of oz
> without toto.
> 
> 
> 
> * (and given the other things going on "at that time," I didn't pay
> much more than passing attention to it, though it seemed a very
> familiar and tedious self-righteous and juvenile game, for some reason.)
> 
>         What WE have pointed out about you is that you attempt to "use" art
>         to peddle idiocy in order to put down, degrade, PUT HUMANS TO SLEEP
>         and feed on their energy.
> 
> 
>         This my dearest is not ART. This is the domain of a CONMAN.
>               [From: "-IID42 Kandinskij @27+" ]
> 
> "Artistry. What is it?
>       I wonder on this thought.
> Is it the ability to successfully con people or is there more involved?"
> 
> 
> ** (there was an objection made that K was not a she, but I chose to
> say she as I am a she.
>       I am he as you are he as you are me and we are all together.
>     Maybe also something to do with animus... but I'm not sure what that
> is.)
> 
> 
> It's late. I've violated the text only <red> no code policy </red>.
> 
> 
> >
> > joseph & donna
> > www.electrichands.com
> > joseph franklyn mcelroy
> > corporate performance artist www.corporatepa.com
> >
> > go shopping -> http://www.electrichands.com/shopindex.htm
> > call me 646 279 2309
> >
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> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >>
> >> On Tuesday, January 7, 2003, at 09:37  AM, joseph (yes=no & yes<>no)
> >> wrote:
> >>
> >>> This is not what was happening. Loosing a legitimate voice (sans
> >>> violence) is a
> >>> self-inflicted misery and fear of such happening is an insecurity
> >>> (note that
> >>> this is an opinion derived through inner reflection and as such,
> >>> since
> >>> I do not
> >>> KNOW ultimate truth, is probably subjective).
> >>
> >> She really had you fooled, dear Echo.
> >>
> >> The only legitimate voice lost was hers, and ours reflected in hers
> >> and
> >> hers reflecting hers back again. Ad nauseum. Allen threw that
> >> babycheeks out with the bath water -- where it belongs.
> >

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