When i go to a website, say Slashdot or freshmeat, or any where that involves ads on the page some where, about 99% of the time it can take upwards of 2-3 minutes to load the entire page. [ ... ] I guess my main question is, anyone ever seen this, if so ever get it fixed?
Most probably, you are running into delays because your browser queries websites for an IPv6 address before trying an IPv4 address. Reportedly, many ad-sites use broken nameservers which botch IPv6 queries, causing the delay. The problem lies on their end, not yours, but disabling IPv6 or using a proxy server like Squid will probably remove the delays.