I would bet that I could extend the list - I am sure the researchers did
not talk to anyone (and there are a large number of individuals in this
group) who have sex as a:

means to enlightenment
a yogic discipline
a way to experience unity with God
to attain salvation by having sex with an individual alreay "saved"

and a bunch of variations on these themes plus some interesting cultural
differences in attitude and purpose for sex that lead to a different set
of reasons than those included in the survey.

davew



On Sat, 4 Aug 2007 19:00:28 -0600, "Douglas Roberts"
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> I find myself strangely ... aroused ... by this information.  I had no
> idea
> there were 237 reasons.
> 
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> On 8/2/07, Merle Lefkoff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
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> >
> >
> > -------- Original Message --------
> > Subject:        Fwd - 237 reasons why people have sex
> > Date:   Thu, 2 Aug 2007 07:18:24 EDT
> > From:   [EMAIL PROTECTED]
> > To:     undisclosed-recipients:;
> >
> >
> >
> > /*Why People Have Sex: 237 Reasons
> > *// Love, Lust, Revenge -- Researchers' List Goes On and On
> > By Miranda Hitti <http://www.webmd.com/Miranda-Hitti>
> > WebMD Medical News
> > Reviewed by Louise Chang, MD <http://www.webmd.com/Louise-Chang>
> >
> > /*
> > *
> > Aug. 1, 2007 -- Why do people have sex? A new study counts the ways and
> > comes up with 237 reasons.
> > The reasons range from the sublime to the scandalous. Some motivations
> > came from the heart. Others came from elsewhere in the anatomy.
> > The leading reason for sex was, "I was attracted to the person,"
> > according to the study, which appears in the August issue of the/
> > Archives of Sexual Behavior/.
> > The study comes from Cindy Meston, PhD, and David Buss, PhD, of the
> > psychology department at the University of Texas at Austin.
> > First, they asked 203 men and 241 women aged 17-52 in Austin, Texas, to
> > anonymously list every reason they had ever had sex. Those men and women
> > were taking psychology classes or were participating in other studies at
> > the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory of the University of Texas.
> > All in all, participants listed 715 reasons for having sex. The
> > researchers deleted repetitions, boiling the list down to 237 reasons.
> > Next, Meston and Buss presented the list to 1,549 psychology students
> > and asked them to rate how often, if ever, they had had sex for each of
> > the 237 reasons.
> > /* 9 Leading Reasons for Having Sex
> > */
> > The researchers identified nine broad themes that characterize the
> > students' top reasons for having sex:
> >      1.     Pure attraction to the other person in general
> >      2.     Experiencing physical pleasure
> >      3.     Expressing love
> >      4.     Having sex because of feeling desired by the other
> >      5.     Having sex to escalate the depth of the relationship
> >      6.     Curiosity or seeking new experiences
> >      7.     Marking a special occasion for celebration
> >      8.     Mere opportunity
> >      9.     Sex just happening due to seemingly uncontrollable
> > circumstances
> >
> >
> > The study also highlights five general themes that were least frequently
> > cited by the students.
> > Those themes included wanting to harm another person (their partner,
> > rival, or a stranger), getting resources (such as a job, money, drugs,
> > or gifts), enhancing social status, using sex as a means to a seemingly
> > unrelated end (such as relieving a headache), or having sex out of duty
> > or pressure./* Top 10 Reasons Why Women Have Sex
> > */
> > The researchers broke down the leading reasons why men and women have
> > sex. Eight of the top 10 reasons were shared by men and women.
> > Here are women's top 10 reasons for having sex:
> >      1.     I was attracted to the person.
> >      2.     I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
> >      3.     It feels good.
> >      4.     I wanted to show my affection to the person.
> >      5.     I wanted to express my love for the person.
> >      6.     I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
> >      7.     I was "horny."
> >      8.     It's fun.
> >      9.     I realized I was in love.
> >      10.     I was "in the heat of the moment."
> >
> >
> > /* Top 10 Reasons Why Men Have Sex
> > */
> > In the study, men's top 10 reasons for having sex are quite similar to
> > the women's list. Here are men's top 10 reasons for having sex,
> > according to the study:
> >      1.     I was attracted to the person.
> >      2.     It feels good.
> >      3.     I wanted to experience the physical pleasure.
> >      4.     It's fun.
> >      5.     I wanted to show my affection to the person.
> >      6.     I was sexually aroused and wanted the release.
> >      7.     I was "horny."
> >      8.     I wanted to express my love for the person.
> >      9.     I wanted to achieve an orgasm.
> >      10.     I wanted to please my partner.
> >
> >
> >
> >      &#8226;     Why do you have sex? Share your reasons on WebMD's 
> > Sexuality:
> > Friends Talking message board
> > <http://boards.webmd.com/webx?THDX@@.8959ee29%21thdchild=.8959ee29>.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > SOURCES: Meston, C./ Archives of Sexual Behavior/, August 2007; vol 36,
> > pp 477-507. News release, University of Texas at Austin.
> >
> >
> >
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