Marcus G. Daniels wrote at 01/16/2013 07:17 PM:
> It should be public.   But it is rude to press a person for personal
> facts they don't volunteer.  If someone uses a source, whether it is
> convenient or inconvenient, public or something else, they they then
> have no business making you feel uncomfortable about information they
> acquired out-of-band.  It's polite behavior.  Nothing must change
> because of the Information Age, etc.

The problem with this part of the discussion is that because of the
"Information Age, etc." (aka population density ;-), the composition of
polite behavior changes rapidly within an individual's lifetime.  Add to
that the mobility of individuals, and there are multiple, perhaps
competing understandings of what polite behavior is.

-- 
glen

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