there was big hoo haa about guys who use gays to satisfy their sexual needs n abuse them in front of straight friends i call such guys 'Indian Convinient Bi-sexuals' these guys have biggest problem of identity crisis - (which is suppose to be in medicals terms a psycological disorder and all gays are suppose to be suffering from this according to medical science) - they conviniently dont want to accept what they are and just want to be politicaly correct and that solves many issues such as -
1. no gay would get into relation with them or ask for commitment for life - so no frills no responsibility attached 2. they can approach gays anytime to satisfy their sexual needs - and gay sex is considered easily available and cheaper than bedding a girl with no worries about after effects 3. no question of coming out to family or to the world 4. in fact these guys are more vulnerable and not prepared to handle difficult things in life thats why they make it convinient for themselves 5. if u ask these convinient bi sexuals what turns them on in a girl, most of them will not be able to answer that question because they themselves donno the answer 6. and yes we can not blame these guys completely (but this should not be the excuse for all those convinient bi-sexuals to escape from this charge) infact we gays in quest of finding a 'man of our dreams' encourage these guys to abuse us and when they ditch us we cant handle it. 7. they have such weired concepts about manlyness that they would many times say i am a top so i wont suk i will just get sucked n will fuk. for such guys the only thing that matters is a hole and it really does not matter whether its offered by a girl or a guy. for them you are nuthing beyond a cute face and a hole to fuck. -- we just need to understand the person and treat him accordingly rather than giving in to the situation or most stupidest thing thats giving it to heart. i dont get surprised when such relations end up. anything which is based on a very weak foundation or just some adjustment is bound to collapse. i would like to ask question to all those guys who were supposedly abused by these bi-sexual guy why they did not question that bi-sexual guy when they were asked to lay just to satisfy his sexual needs. we will always get these convinient bi-sexuals in our society they will keep on using and abusing gays will get married to a girl and will live happily ever after and stupid gays will keep making hues n cries about it. _________________________________________________________________ Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfeeŽ Security. http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963 ------------------------ Yahoo! Groups Sponsor --------------------~--> DonorsChoose. A simple way to provide underprivileged children resources often lacking in public schools. Fund a student project in NYC/NC today! http://us.click.yahoo.com/5F6XtA/.WnJAA/E2hLAA/WfTolB/TM --------------------------------------------------------------------~-> Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== NEW CLASSIFIEDS SECTION SEEKING FRIENDS? VISIT www.gaybombay.info click on classified section and type your message in the post section once the link opens This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. For Parties and events go to: http://calendar.yahoo.com/YYY,04497/srt,0/gaybombaygroup/?v=42&POS= Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/