Hi Buddha
Your note on casual sex is interesting to read but your conception about casual
sex is wrong. You have compared casual sex with animal sex, that means you are
ignorant about the animal sex. Animals are triggered to have sex once in a
season - that is all, and they are only attracted by the chemicals produced
by the female partner. For that act, animals have to compete with other animals
and succeed. Whearas the Gay persons tend to have casual sex only because they
have NO PARMANENT PARTNER. To have a parmanent partner we should be in CANADA.
ok.
Buddha Speaks <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
HI All
I'm a new member to this group.Hope you guys out there would enjoy my ideas and
views.I don't intend to offend anyone in anyway.
I would like to draw all of your attention to the topic of "CASUAL SEX"
Casual Sex is now acceptable than it was before, because nowadays younger
people have the freedom and opportunity to meet people through college, through
friends and also through Internet.
However remember Casual Sex in a committed relationship is nothing more than
giving in to our Animal instincts.
Casual Sex is bad because its not good sex.Human relations are not just the
quest for the perfect orgasm, instead our lives are an attemptto overcome the
animal instinct, to commit our-self to one person and by that committment to
give our lives a "MEANING".That committment then defines us and within that
context Sex is meaningful and Good.
If we have Sex like animals , we feel like Animals, thats Simple.
Love and Sex goes hand-in-hand.Its that physiological Sex that createsa flood
of hormones that naturally creates a band.
Oxytoxin(teh same hormone that is released when a mother breast feeds her
child) makes us feel close to a partner and Dopamine makes us feel content in
their company, both of which are released during Sex.
So before Casual Sex we were clear headed, sure that we could walk away with no
regrets.After Sexwe may suddenly feel involved, emotionally intimate whether we
like it or not and whether its wise or not.
Result??
Casual Sex may simply be a bad idea for us because it can create feelings that
we can't control not to mention needs that we cannot meet.
Hence if you are in a committed relationship, avoid having Casual Sex with
every attractive people you meet.
This would keep your relation healthy and kicking.
Enjoy every moiment of intimacy with your loved one, not with everyone or
anyone...
If some of these throughts make sense to you and if you feel rthat you have
been involved in Casual Sex inspite of having a Loving partner, who is faithful
to you, Please do get back to him.
If he really loves you , then throw open your Casual Sex encounters in frnt of
him and make a promise to your own self that you will try an avoid it in future.
Give him a warm hug, and believe me if you love is true then your partner will
feel your warmth and BINGO!! you are in the best phase of your life once again.
Remember, There is no good deed oin this world you can do , but to love someone
who loves you unconditionally.
Life is Boomerang!!!
Whatever you give to others will come back to you in full returns.
Hope I may be able to touch some lives and try and make their relationship
better.
All the best to you guys out there.Committ yourself and enjoy life.
The Buddha Speaks
Love all
---------------------------------
Group Site:
http://www.gaybombay.info
==========================
This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages
(by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all
members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then
please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address.
Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED]
No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Archives are at
http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html
Yahoo! Groups Links
<*> To visit your group on the web, go to:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/
<*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to:
[EMAIL PROTECTED]
<*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to:
http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
