jtk... Interesting how people try and define mr. right. on some level, mr. right may not exist as one has imagined/fantasized about. but then, if a mr. right were to exist, how would you identify him? would you gauge as per the criteria you have laid down (secure job, physically fit, etc.) or would you rather look at the grey areas in life - for perfect black and white are again ideals. does that mean you would compromise? perhaps not, for no matter how much we try, we cannot do away with standards. standards exist because we create them to ease our lives. things generally fall somewhere in between these standards. we have to decide which is more important then.
therefore, it might help to figure out what one wants in life, and compare what the other person wants in life. maybe a match of philophies, shared interests, common goals, and of course the strength of physical attraction between the two could set the ball rolling. but again, there are no set rules - mr. right could be the one who feels just right to you, perhaps. there are never clear answers, an open mind helps. cynicism about LTRs and mr. right's existence may just close the doors for you. --- Sanjay Lulla <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: --------------------------------- everyone looks for mr right, they have their set standards they close their eyes and mind to the closest ones who would be a good fix for them. after all love is not finding someone perfect. it is seeing an imperfect person perfectly, accepting him with his -ve points adjusting to them and making most of the +ve whatever liltle is there. It like that email I received about a tall bldg wiht every floor having a perfect husband 2 points better then the one on the ealrier floor. The lady treks to the top floor where it says good bye u can tbe satisfied So be happy with what u get a better option does not exist. Sanjay N On 2/17/06, jtk53 <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: Mr. Right? Who is this man? I see so many looking for him in so many chatrooms, so many groups......and have yet seen him appear. Is Mr. Right a man that has a body that is totally physical fit, defined muscled man? Mr Right? Ah the man with a secure life, financially secure, all the nice toys, the awesome home, totally responsiblity. Mr Right, the man that has all his ducks in a row....lives a content no hassel lifestyle, and knows what he wants out of life, and goes for it. Mr Right, the man that will support you when you are down and out; carry you when you struggle in life, and be there for you when you need him the most. Mr Right will always be committed, tolerant of your mistakes, poor choices, and understand you, no matter what. Hey.....Mr Right has never come into a group, a chatroom, and he is not the type that is looking for a LTR, because LTR are not fantasies. In other words, Mr Right does NOT exist. REPLY REMINDER: Keep your personal replies private! Copy & paste the member's personal address into the "To" field of your email, or select it from the drop-down list when replying online. Group Site: http://www.gaybombay.info ========================== This message was posted to the gay_bombay Yahoo! Group. Responses to messages (by clicking "Reply") will also be posted on the eGroup and sent to all members. If you'd like to respond privately to the author of any message then please compose and send a new email message to the author's email address. Post:- gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com Subscribe:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Digest Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] No Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Individual Mail Mode:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Contact Us:- [EMAIL PROTECTED] Archives are at http://www.mail-archive.com/gay_bombay%40yahoogroups.com/maillist.html Classifieds for personal advertisements are back on www.gaybombay.info site. Please exercise restraint in the language of your personal advertisement. Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/gay_bombay/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
