i agree guys.. go easy cmon!! its all for love.. so what does it matter who does what FOR their loved ones??
On Fri, Oct 9, 2009 at 2:25 AM, Aaditya ! <aaditya2...@yahoo.co.in> wrote: > > > Dear Aditya B, > > Positive or negative, Meena Kumari or Durga Mata, only I have the right to > choose who I want to be. If gay men are to be respected, gay men who fast > for their boyfriends also deserved to be respected (and words like 'crap' > not be used for them) > > I am not concerned with the source of the Karwa Chauth tradition. Fasting > for my boyfriend does not make me womanly or subservient to him. It makes me > feel nice. > > If it makes me feel nice, it is good. > > Regards, > Aaditya2106 > > > *if you can read this.... thank a teacher* > > > --- On *Fri, 10/9/09, Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail.com>* wrote: > > > From: Aditya Bondyopadhyay <adit.b...@gmail.com> > Subject: Re: g_b karwa chauth-my goodness Aditya........... grow up > To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com > Date: Friday, October 9, 2009, 12:09 AM > > > > There is nothing wrong in wanting to be a girl, or in being a girl for that > matter. What is problematic is the type of girl. A girl does not have to be > a doormat. A girl can be a powerful, self-confident, empowered, emancipated, > and independent person. That person does not have to grovel at the feet of > men to have an identity. This Karva fast crap is designed by patriarchist > society to keep women in bondage. When was the last time society insisted > that men fast for their women. This is the moedel I find sick. And gay men > can do well to emulate and adopt the positive empowered woman as a > aspiration. They can be Laxmibai, or Kali, or Durga, or Sarojini Naidu, or > Razia Sultana...They do not have to be Meena Kumari... > > And it has nothing to do with love, it jhas everything to with life wth > dignity.... > > 2009/10/8 Dreamy Eyes <saqa...@yahoo. > co.in<http://mc/compose?to=saqa...@yahoo.co.in> > > > >> >> >> my goodness Aditya...... ..... grow up .... will ya plz???...... .... >> >> they are doing it for love .......... who are you to say their actions >> crap or them idiots????.. ..... >> >> what if they pray to be a girl next time they are born???..... .. we all >> pray for fulfillment of some wish or the other....... . they are no >> exception... ..... >> >> if you have nothing nice to say, probably u shud just keep your mouth >> shut........ .. >> >> >> >> ------------------------------ >> From cricket scores to your friends. Try the Yahoo! India >> Homepage!<http://in.rd.yahoo.com/tagline_metro_4/*http://in.yahoo.com/trynew> >> > > > > -- > Do not print this mail unless really necessary. > Save paper, save trees..!! > > If you loose your way while SCUBA diving, the safest direction to head for > is UP..!!! > > > >
