sounds like normal guy to me.. On Thu, Jul 7, 2011 at 4:22 AM, prem chandran <zulfy_2...@yahoo.com> wrote:
> I hv been keeping a relation with my Ex Bf for about 2 yrs. Helped him in > financially for all his needs, such as Air Ticket, Mobiles, gold ring, Gold > Chain, Hospital Exp, day to day expenses,Hard disk, Clothes, Jacket for > interview etc as he was jobless & Sick. > Only thing he was a lier throughout & still I accommodated. He was very > adamant with his lies even though I exposed few times. Whenever I was in > Mumbai he used to meet me 2 times a week , rest he used to give me all sort > of excuses. But later I found-out he-used to go with others. Well I told him > I wouldnt mind going wd others but tell me wd whom he goes. He used to swear > upon his parents & Jesus Christ ( He is a Cristian boy) that since he > started wd me never been wd any. It was a lie bcz I exposed his lie twice. > He use to justify a lie with 1000 lies. Still i was very much accommodating > to keep him happy. I knew he had lot of problems in his life. He was a hard > core bottom been with many even foreigners before becoming friendly wd me. > He was living wd his relatives they used to take care of his daily food. > Rest I was supporting. He was very good looking like a foreigner. Even > though 24 yrs look like a boy of 20. Tall & fair. He had fetish for under > wears used buy at least 4 every month. Waxing his legs & Chest n was proud > of himself. When i'm away I used to send him 8-9000 rupees every month. > When I was away he started working for a salary of 4000, as a trainee but > used to up/down fr work by auto paying 80+80 every day, bcz of my > remittance.so after 4 month i landed back on Saturday & waited for him near > to his place to give a surprise but that evening he never turned up. I > called his number not responded & called him nxt day he swear ed to me that > he reached home by 8.30pm. > I told him I wouldn't mind if he had n with any, bcz he is a needy guy but > tell me the truth. He started shouting on phone . I tried to calm him down > but he was just accusing me with all sort of nonsense stating he will go2 > police stating that I was using him and all. > The nxt day he wanted to justify that he reached his place in 30 min, call > me near his work place and both of us travelled on same rick but never > reached in 30 mins but he still he was justifying. So i walked out from > there without any comments. > Then started all threatening & all as I stopped helping him > financially. Then he become very furious. > He had faulted his net payment and even though the con was discon in feb > the bill continued & accrued to Rs.8500/- b4 I left in Jan I paid the bill > on 4Jan & gave him the Receipt which he say he misplaced N accused me I > never paid bcz of that net discon.Now he says he has only one Tension that > is reliance's pending bill, which he expecting to settle if I want to ease > his tension, but nothing 2 do wd me anymore. > I wanted to settle the bill, Made inquiry n called him, sms him for some > details but he never replied or attended my calls. > Since no more funding, he started to travel by bus, which would cost him > only Rs24 up/down instead of Rs.160/- > Most of the money I gave was through Bank Transfer & I hv all the copies. > I want to help him but he is very adamant that he doesn't need my help, he > is poor, as long he gets his food & accommodation from his relatives he is > happy. > I know well he wouldnt be happy without any luxuries. He says he has > parents, but never lived wd his parents for the last 5 yrs. Last year he > visited his home but returned after 5 days saying that his elder bro ( 2 yrs > elder) kicked & beaten him for being there. I doubt wheter the so called > parents are his own or he is adapted. He has a foreigner look but other > sibling not. Bcz he had tld me that. > In between he had visited Bangkok, he said his father arranged the ticket. > For the trip I helped him ws USD 600/- apart from arranging Foreign Currency > with his money. I dont know with whom he had gone, taken my Camera too but > never shown me any pics or returned my camera. Always used to tell me later > later but never came. I doubt he had gone wd some for a sex trip. During his > trip he was never in touch wd me eventhough I had given him a Thai Sim. As > long as he was getting my steady money he was very good with me. Now he > doesnt even care to talk on the phone. I know his cousin also knows he is a > gay. He has a sissy walk. > I still feel pitty for him But he is very adamant & with an attitude > problem. > Today he is my sworn Enemy, always threaten wd police complint, hen ever I > call ( Very seldom he attend) even though I know he has no base to make any > complaint. > I knew from the begining he wasn't honest & Sincere. He was after money > only. > One thing was good, he is a non smoker, non drinker with simple food > habits. Never attend any gay public party. Dont kw whether he used to go4 > Pvt parties. > WHAT TO DO???????????????????????????????? > ANY SUGGESTIONS > >
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