Lightbreather,

I wish you the best, and I want you to know that I appreciate your voice of
reason. Hopefully, things will change in the future, and you'll return to
wiki activities as no one deserves to be silenced.

Best,
Rosie

Rosie Stephenson-Goodknight
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User:Rosiestep
@rosiestepgood

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> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
> have been friendly with me over the past year.
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> Hi Lightbreather -
>
> I know I haven't been very active lately (I wound up with sepsis,) but I am
> sorry to see you go.  I'm not very familiar with the on-wiki side of what
> happened to you, but I think it should be an urgent priority for WMF to
> develop better tools (and a culture that uses them) to handle both on-wiki
> and off-wiki harassment.  I wish you the best, thank you for your
> contributions so far, and hope there's a time in the future where changes
> have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable
> coming back.
>
> Best,
> Kevin Gorman
>
> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:35 PM, LB <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
> > have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >
> > Lightbreather
> >
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> Message: 3
> Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 17:42:38 -0700
> From: LB <[email protected]>
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> Sorry to hear that you were ill, and thank you for the kind thoughts.
>
> Lightbreather
>
> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:39 PM, Kevin Gorman <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Hi Lightbreather -
> >
> > I know I haven't been very active lately (I wound up with sepsis,) but I
> > am sorry to see you go.  I'm not very familiar with the on-wiki side of
> > what happened to you, but I think it should be an urgent priority for WMF
> > to develop better tools (and a culture that uses them) to handle both
> > on-wiki and off-wiki harassment.  I wish you the best, thank you for your
> > contributions so far, and hope there's a time in the future where changes
> > have been made to the point that you are interested in and comfortable
> > coming back.
> >
> > Best,
> > Kevin Gorman
> >
> > On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 5:35 PM, LB <[email protected]> wrote:
> >
> >> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> who
> >> have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >>
> >> Lightbreather
> >>
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> Date: Tue, 26 May 2015 21:49:04 -0400
> From: Carol Moore dc <[email protected]>
> To: "Addressing gender equity and exploring ways to increase the
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> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
> > Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> > who have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >
> > Lightbreather
> >
> >
> Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
>
> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
>
> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they
> keep it for all future arbitrations...
>
> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
>
> Also in effect here.
>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
>
>
>
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> Message: 5
> Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:06:04 -0400
> From: Neotarf <[email protected]>
> To: "Addressing gender equity and exploring ways to increase the
>         participation   of women within Wikimedia projects."
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> Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and doxxed,
> on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF are well
> aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.
>
> There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes in
> Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing both
> the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of the
> problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the same
> way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report harassment
> will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.
>
> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <[email protected]>
> wrote:
>
> > On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
> >
> >> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> who
> >> have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >>
> >> Lightbreather
> >>
> >>
> >>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
> >
> > I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
> > Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
> >
> > Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
> > their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
> > taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
> > trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
> > their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
> > harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they keep
> > it for all future arbitrations...
> >
> > Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
> >
> >
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
> >
> > Also in effect here.
> >
> >
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
> >
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> Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:21:01 -0400
> From: Neotarf <[email protected]>
> To: "Addressing gender equity and exploring ways to increase the
>         participation   of women within Wikimedia projects."
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> This might also be a good time to mention the conversation about harassment
> on the recent Inspire grant project.  Fourteen of the proposals were
> concerned with managing harassment.  I don't believe I ever saw anyone from
> the Foundation comment on this.
>
> https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Community_discussion_on_harassment_reporting
>
> Instead we now have the English Wikipedia's Arbcom taking on their third or
> fourth sexual harassment within the year, without having even established a
> working definition of what it is.
>
> On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 12:06 AM, Neotarf <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and
> > doxxed, on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF
> are
> > well aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.
> >
> > There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes in
> > Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing
> both
> > the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of
> the
> > problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the
> same
> > way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report
> harassment
> > will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.
> >
> > On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <
> [email protected]>
> > wrote:
> >
> >> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
> >>
> >>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> >>> who have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >>>
> >>> Lightbreather
> >>>
> >>>
> >>>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
> >>
> >> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
> >> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
> >>
> >> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
> >> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
> >> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
> >> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility in
> >> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
> >> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they
> keep
> >> it for all future arbitrations...
> >>
> >> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
> >>
> >>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
> >>
> >> Also in effect here.
> >>
> >>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
> >>
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> Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 00:43:11 -0400
> From: Risker <[email protected]>
> To: "Addressing gender equity and exploring ways to increase the
>         participation   of women within Wikimedia projects."
>         <[email protected]>
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> There is a tendency to ascribe a great deal of power to the Arbitration
> Committee of English Wikipedia - and of the various arbitration committees,
> it is the one with the greatest scope and perceived power.  In fact, Arbcom
> has almost no ability to manage the world outside of the pages of the
> Wikipedia project, and even within the project it can only handle minuscule
> portions of the activities.  It has no power at all to control other
> websites, can only take action against Wikipedians acting outside of the
> project if there is an extremely clear and direct link between the
> Wikipedia persona and the persona outside of WP, and is very wary of taking
> action in the absence of direct links because many if not most arbitrators
> and functionaries over the last 8-10 years have been the subject of
> joe-jobs themselves.  I've had to have three separate LinkedIn accounts
> purporting to be me taken down over the last 8 years, for example; others
> have had their personal images and names attached to accounts on porn
> sites, paid editing sites, and a fair number of other unsavory sites - so
> as a group we can honestly say "there's plenty of reason to doubt" in a lot
> of cases.
>
> Arbcom is not all-powerful.  Even the full force of the WMF can only be
> turned on to the most extreme cases of harassment; there simply aren't the
> human resources to address comparatively run-of-the-mill harassment,
> especially when it's occurring outside the walls of their projects.  Not
> even huge internet-based companies like Facebook, Twitter, or Yahoo have
> the personnel or the ability to prevent or address harassment on unrelated
> sites, and they have hundreds of times more "community managers" than the
> WMF has.
>
> To compare to a non-internet situation:  How many police officers would be
> needed to effectively stop catcalls being directed to women walking down
> the street?  Or preventing bullies from picking on the skinny kid?
>
> We know the answer - there aren't enough cops in the world to stop these
> things even in one medium-sized city.  What needs to change is society's
> attitude toward these activities - and because the internet isn't a single
> society, the task is extremely difficult.  The WMF isn't going to be able
> to solve it, Arbcom doesn't have a hope of solving it, and as long as the
> same privacy laws that prevent people from digging into deeply private
> information about us also protect people whose behaviour is very much
> unappreciated, I'm not sure the legal systems of most democratic countries
> will be able to solve it.
>
> Risker/Anne
>
> On 27 May 2015 at 00:21, Neotarf <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > This might also be a good time to mention the conversation about
> > harassment on the recent Inspire grant project.  Fourteen of the
> proposals
> > were concerned with managing harassment.  I don't believe I ever saw
> anyone
> > from the Foundation comment on this.
> >
> https://meta.wikimedia.org/wiki/Grants:IdeaLab/Community_discussion_on_harassment_reporting
> >
> > Instead we now have the English Wikipedia's Arbcom taking on their third
> > or fourth sexual harassment within the year, without having even
> > established a working definition of what it is.
> >
> > On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 12:06 AM, Neotarf <[email protected]> wrote:
> >
> >> Totally understandable.  I too have also been sexually harassed and
> >> doxxed, on at least two other sites besides WP.  The ArbCom and the WMF
> are
> >> well aware of it, and have been unwilling to lift a finger against it.
> >>
> >> There is a book about cyber harassment making the rounds: "Hate Crimes
> in
> >> Cyberspace" by Danielle Keats Citron ISBN 978-0-674-36829-3 describing
> both
> >> the horrible price that individuals pay and the legal underpinnings of
> the
> >> problem. It's a pity WP is not in the vanguard of this movement in the
> same
> >> way it has pioneered in other areas.  Instead, those who report
> harassment
> >> will find themselves treated worse than the harassers.
> >>
> >> On Tue, May 26, 2015 at 9:49 PM, Carol Moore dc <
> [email protected]
> >> > wrote:
> >>
> >>> On 5/26/2015 8:35 PM, LB wrote:
> >>>
> >>>> Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you
> >>>> who have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >>>>
> >>>> Lightbreather
> >>>>
> >>>>
> >>>>  Plus all that on-wiki harassment!
> >>>
> >>> I did notice something interesting and actually positive in
> >>> Lightbreather's arbitration, compared to GGTF and others I've seen.
> >>>
> >>> Which is that now editors only can comment on Arbitration talk pages in
> >>> their own sections.  This lessens opportunities for drive-by harassing
> >>> taunts against, and replies against, various editors who harassers are
> >>> trying to get kicked off Wikipedia.  They have to take responsibility
> in
> >>> their own sections. Perhaps my screaming about "institutionalized
> >>> harassment at Arbcom" had at least this minor effect...  I hope they
> keep
> >>> it for all future arbitrations...
> >>>
> >>> Announcement on this page, after which went into effect.
> >>>
> >>>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Evidence#Sectioned_discussion_is_now_in_effect_on_this_page
> >>>
> >>> Also in effect here.
> >>>
> >>>
> https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia_talk:Arbitration/Requests/Case/Lightbreather/Workshop
> >>>
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> Date: Wed, 27 May 2015 08:55:36 +0200
> From: Jane Darnell <[email protected]>
> To: "Addressing gender equity and exploring ways to increase the
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> I wish you all the best, and thanks for your efforts!
>
> On Wed, May 27, 2015 at 2:35 AM, LB <[email protected]> wrote:
>
> > Due to off-wiki harassment, I have retired. Thank you to those of you who
> > have been friendly with me over the past year.
> >
> > Lightbreather
> >
> >
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