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Gilbert1: <I don't believe you would not know the answers to those question
if there were
answers>
JC1: So pray, WHY ask me such questions?
Gilbert2: < There are so many questions about homosexuality that we do not
know and dare not ask - including medical questions>
JC 2: Please explain WHY you would NOT ask medical questions. I can
understand NOT asking personal questions. I would not ask personal questions
of anyone be it homosexual or heterosexual.
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Gilbert 3: <About fifteen years ago, we were living very comfortably in our
home in the USA
with our teenage daughter. One day an affable Goan relative comes from
Canada to visit us and pend some time with us. But the relative comes with
THEIR live-in lover.>
JC3: You see Gilbert, you have me confused here. WHOSE lover is this "THEIR"
live-in Lover?
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Gilbert 4:< Should I make this relative:
1. Very much at home and make the persons an example to my kid.
2. Allow the two lovers share the same bed room for as long as they want to
be
our guests.
3. Force them into separate bedrooms and abide by our mores while they are
under
our roof.
4. Pack this relative back home or to a hotel ASAP.>
JC 4: I can neither think nor decide for you ....esp 15 years ago. This
reverse future in the past tense confuses me even further (See simple
Velcars get confusado mui facil)
If you were to ask me a hypothetical case as to what one WOULD do in a case
like that, I'll try attempt that question.
Here goes:
1. First of all, I do not expect relatives/friends who are NOT in close
contact with us, to stay with us. Mere acquaintances & Relatives who do not
know us well are better off living at a hotel. I'll gladly book the room for
them and even pay for the room et al ...if the visit is important. (Job
interview etc). But, we do not run a guest house for "folga" - neither now
nor in the future.
2. However, IF we invite the relative or agree to his/her request for Room
with us, we'd certainly try ascertain WHO is coming, WHO else is coming
along, the duration of the intended stay etc....BEFORE we say OK.
This relative would certainly be told .....please understand that our place
is small, JC keeps odd hours.. the telephone rings at all hours of the
night, we do NOT walk around sans Kashti at ANY time of the day or night, we
do not play loud music in the house.. etc etc...BEFORE he/she arrives.
3. If he/she is bringing along someone who is a stranger to the family, I'd
invite him/her to check into a hotel. Strangers make for muito confusao in
short time.
4. HOWEVER, once they have been Okayed for stay in the family home, I will
NOT legislate whether they should share the same bed or not.... And IF I
have been negligent in NOT doing due deligence, I'd go to the store and get
some disposable bedsheets.... BUT, I will NOT legislate WHAT they should or
should NOT do.
So Lawrence ..... if I may ask ..... What exactly did you do?
Noooooooooo!!!!!!! ....don't tell me .....
1. You were negligent by NOT doing due diligence
2. You were shocked when Tutti came with Fruiti
3. Dona Filomena did Kattor Gilbert's Mirsangh
4. You tried to separate beds or even separate rooms, and "sweeties" got all
very emotional
5. Dona Filomena did even more Kattor re Mirsangh
6. Everybody was in need of Santa Casa da Misericordia
7. Prime Minister Gilberto was retro-promoted to post of Deputy Prime
Minister
( No wonder he writes thus : < Ladies as the boss of the home please opine>
BTW...did you donate the Bed Sheets to ......?
(;-)
jc
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