Well said Rose!  
 
I totally agree with you and have to say that my youth and formative years in 
Mombasa encompassed not only the culture, friendship and ethics of other 
castes, creeds and nationality but that it also helped forge my outlook in 
adulthood too.
 
I grew up in an area which had Muslims (all sects), Hindus (all castes) and 
Goans (all castes again)  living together in harmony and friendship as well as 
sharing wonderful unity at Diwali, Eid and Christmas which sadly is lacking in 
this world today. We all integrated so well.
 
I am happy to add that these connections and friendship have lived on, despite 
most, if not all emigrating to other parts of the world with the advent of 
emails!!  
 
Sadly it takes just the opinion of a few, with well chosen words to ignite a 
different opinion of things but I can assure you that the majority who were 
born and lived in East Africa will agree with your comments!
 
Thanks to you and Mel for keeping the balance!
 
Regards
Celia.





 Message: 3
Date: Mon, 1 Dec 2014 15:10:25 +0100 (CET)
From: Melvyn Fernandes <[email protected]>
To: "goanet  [goanet]" <[email protected]>
Cc: "Eugene   Correia  \[Eugene Correia\]" <[email protected]>
Subject: [Goanet] OHeraldo article - Mapping Goan Presence in East
        Africa (Response to Eugene Correia by Rose Fernandes)
Message-ID: <5870326.31301417443025147.JavaMail.www@wwinf3711>
Content-Type: text/plain; charset=UTF-8

Dear Eugene

Re:? OHeraldo article - Mapping Goan Presence in East Africa

Your article on OHeraldo on the above subject made interesting reading.

However there are two lines on which I would like to comment.? 

The first line is:

Quote:
East African Goans will never be able to erase this ugly aspect of caste and 
class warfare from the annals of history.
Unquote

To tackle this issue I first need to tell you a true story of a pride of lions 
who wanted to sit in the shade of a tree away from the scorching sun.?? 
However, this space had already been claimed by monkeys first.?? The lions 
roared in, sent the monkeys climbing the tree to keep out of harms way and 
settled down to a nice sleep.?? In this instance, the monkeys decided it was 
time to reclaim their land.?? >From the top of the tree they made susu (piss) 
in bucketfuls on the sleeping lions who in disgust had no alternative but to 
leave.?? Reclaiming their space once again to enjoy.? See the link below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0L02LkpcMo


All this banter about the ugly aspect of caste and class warfare.?? The reality 
is when the tailors (dorjee) were not able to join certain clubs, none of them 
lay down on the ground and died, did they? ? No, instead tailors got their own 
backs, reclaimed their right to belong to a club and and formed their own club 
holding their own successful social and welfare functions.? With their sewing 
skills, fashion flare, swanky three piece suits and latest ladies designer 
clothes, they were the best dressed at functions, birthdays, weddings and 
funerals and enjoyed probably excellent Goan cuisine and drink.?? So who lost 
out in the end?? This is exactly what I would have done, why be among people 
who do not want you when you can be with people that do.

Tailors were important in other aspects of Goan life (as I have written about 
in previous posts). ? Added to this, they also had the determination to rise 
above petty behaviour and show us all they did not give a damn, more a win 
situation than warfare is the way I see it.

The second line is:

Quote:
Goans felt they were God's chosen people and kept aloof from the other Indians 
who outnumbered Goans.
Unquote

My own personal experiences were very different.?? Our interface with other 
Indians was on an every day basis.?? When all my classmates meet for a reunion 
next year, there will be just a few Goans in the mix, most will be Indian or 
Muslim, we have all kept in touch over the years and all got on.?? On the 
street where I lived in Mombasa, Kenya the make-up might have been 
predominately Goan but they were Hindu and Muslim families too.?? On this 
basis, I beg to differ on the point you made that Goans kept aloof from other 
Indians.

If you look at the Sikh heritage website, you will see many photos of the 
Sikh-Goan relationship there.

http://sikh-heritage.co.uk/frame.htm

General:
On a general note, what is disconcerting is the amount of writing that is being 
done especially by those who did not spend even a day of their lives in East 
Africa during this time.?? Can I invite one and all to write about their own 
life experiences while fresh in mind and sharing them with us on goanet both 
the shameful things and not so shameful things. Or are their livestyles empty 
and devoid of interest that East Africanders are filling this gap for them?

East Africa might come under "good old days" but most of us from this period of 
time have a great capacity to enjoy life and are doing so today.


Rose Fernandes
Thornton Heath, Surrey, United Kingdom

1 December 2014
                                                                                
  

Reply via email to