26-Jul-2016
Dear Friend,
There are moments in our lives when we are full of questions with no ready 
answers. "Why is life so unfair?" Why do good people suffer and bad people 
prosper? Why are the innocent people victims of terrorism? Why do people doing 
so much good suddenly die? Sometimes it appears that life makes no sense at all 
unless we have faith in a God who knows what's happening! For that matter, how 
do we live our life to make the most of it? Have a quiet weekend pondering the 
questions! -Fr. Jude
Sun Ref. Eighteenth Sunday: “Do we trust in God or things! Getters or 
Givers???” 31-Jul-2016Eccl.1: 2; 2: 21-23;          Coll. 3: 1-5, 9-11;         
 Luke 12: 13-21;

Today’s reading from Ecclesiastes asks what really matters in life. Even the 
man who has laboured skillfully must leave what he has acquired to someone else 
who has not toiled for it at all. Pessimistically the wise man wonders: Has he 
laboured in vain? Does life make sense? The Book of Ecclesiastes, which is a 
series of glimpses into life, gives thought to these phenomena. Looking at this 
world the author came up with one main word to describe it: vanity, which in 
Hebrew connotes 'vapour' or 'a chase after wind'.
VanityVanity is well illustrated by Aesop's fable of the fox and the crow. The 
coal-black crow flew into a tree with a stolen piece of meat in her beak. A 
fox, who saw her, wanted the meat, so he said, "How beautiful you are my 
friend! Is your voice as beautiful?" The crow was so happy that she opened her 
mouth to sing. Down fell the piece of meat and the fox seized upon it and ran 
away. - In our time, vanity could be applicable to the woman who, aiming to 
prove her contention that men are more vain than women, said in a speech: "It 
is a pity that most intelligent and learned men attach least importance to the 
way they dress. Why, right here in this room the most cultivated man is wearing 
the most clumsily knotted tie!" As if on signal, every man in the room 
immediately put his hand to his tie to straighten it.Harold Buetow in 'God 
still speaks: Listen!'
Today’s Gospel speaks of having our priorities right in life. To many people 
money appears to be the most important ingredient of life and their constant 
prayer is that God might give them plenty of money. At times we even ask God to 
intervene on our behalf in money matters. This does not happen only today but 
took place even in Jesus' times. A man in the crowd said to Jesus, "Master, 
tell my brother to give me a share of our inheritance." We are well aware how 
money and inheritance cause family breakups in the best of families today. What 
is Jesus' response? He could have intervened but he refused to get involved, 
and preferred the matter be solved by the rightful authorities. Human beings 
have to take responsibility for their actions and not ask God to intervene in 
mundane matters. Instead of taking a practical decision in the matter Jesus 
prefers to point to the principle that should guide our dealings in money 
matters. "Watch and be on your guard against greed of any kind, for a man's 
life is not made secure by what he owns, even if he has more than he needs." In 
the second part of the gospel Jesus tells the parable of the rich fool who 
messed up his priorities and consequently ruined his life. What makes him 
foolish is that he spent his whole life storing up earthly wealth and not 
thinking beyond. If we are building our life on something that does not last we 
are fools building castles in the sands. The only riches worth pursuing are 
those that give meaning to life on earth and have eternal value. Is our life 
principle: "Eat, drink and make merry for today is all that counts!"
"Really Livin!"In one of his stories Bill Glass, an evangelist tells the story 
of a multi-millionaire Texas oil man. He wanted to be buried when he died in a 
solid gold, custom-made Cadillac surrounded by all his wealth. At his funeral a 
vast crowd assembled to pay their last respects. The dead man was dressed in 
his finest apparel -the kind Liberace wore when he performed, and was propped 
up in the front seat of his golden Cadillac. As the car was lowered into the 
grave, a young boy in the crowd said: "Man, that's really livin!” Bill Glass 
goes on to emphasize the point of his parable. What we often think of as 
"'really livin'" is "really dyin". What we often pursue under the illusion of a 
'full life' leads only to an 'empty grave'. Today's reading says much the same 
thing.
Albert Cylwicki in 'His Word Resounds'
The QuestionA rich man heard that a certain priest had a 'hot line' to God, and 
he came to him in search of a favour. He wanted the priest to pray and find out 
if he, the rich man, was going to heaven when he died. It was a strange 
request, but when the priest heard that the man was prepared to contribute 
generously towards the completion of the church repairs, he decided to give it 
a go. A week later the rich man returned. "Did you find out?" he asked. "Yes I 
did," replied the priest. "Well then, what's the answer”, the rich man asked 
very anxiously. "The answer is in two parts" replied the priest. "There is good 
news, and there's bad news. Which would you like to hear first?" The man was 
quite nervous, but he ventured to hear the good news first. "The good news is 
that you are going to heaven when you die." The rich man was thrilled, and 
excited, and it was a few seconds before he spoke. "That's great. That's the 
good news. Surely what could be bad news after that? What's the bad news?" "The 
bad news is that you're going to die tonight!"Jack McArdle in 'And that's the 
Gospel Truth'
Candle in the windIn 1997, at the funeral of Lady Diana Spencer, Singer Elton 
John brought tears to the eyes of hundreds of mourners in Westminster Abbey 
when he sang: “Candle in the wind”. Interestingly, this song –with the line 
“Goodbye Norma Rose” –was originally written for an equally glamorous person, 
Norma Jeane, who assumed the stage name ‘Marilyn Monroe’ and died some 45 years 
ago on August 5, 1962 due to an overdose of sleeping pills. Diana and Marilyn 
share many things in common –both were beautiful and wealthy, photographed by 
paparazzi worldwide, yet, unhappy in marriage and both died tragically in 
August aged but 36. Young icons snuffed out like candles in the wind. In vain 
do we labour for what perishes. Vanity of vanities! All is vanity! All of human 
life is ultimately meaningless if viewed in itself, apart from God.Francis 
Gonsalves in ‘Sunday Seeds for Daily Deeds’
Love people and use thingsThere is a story about an empty village and a 
stranger who enters the deserted town. Where are the people? All the signs of 
life are here, nothing is locked, food is on the table, smoke is curling in the 
chimneys, and stores are open but empty of customers. He doesn’t understand, 
but he proceeds to have a wonderful time. Soon he is too drunk and happy to 
realize that the villagers are all on a nearby hill and are desperately trying 
to signal to him. First they rush outside the town because they were told that 
a huge bomb in the town square was about to go off. They left everything to 
save their lives. From a distance they try vainly by gestures and shouting to 
warn the stranger, taking care not to come too close. They watch him eat their 
food and drink their liquor, and try on their clothes. But when the happy 
stranger goes to the bank and flings their money into the air, they forgot 
everything but their greed. They rush back to the village, beat up the 
stranger, and drive him out. At that moment the bomb explodes. They all die, 
except the stranger whom they chased out!!!John Pichappilly in ‘The Table of 
the Word’
May we live in the present with our eyes set on the beyond!
 Fr. Jude Botelho [email protected]
PS. The stories, incidents and anecdotes used in the reflections have been 
collected over the years from books as well as from sources over the net and 
from e-mails received. Every effort is made to acknowledge authors whenever 
possible. If you send in stories or illustrations I would be grateful if you 
could quote the source as well so that they can be acknowledged if used in 
these reflections.These reflections are also available on my Web site 
www.NetForLife.net Thank you.

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