In my lifetime I have seen several men who have given up their lives.  In my 
case, it was always men.  Till this day,I am haunted by the memory of a dear 
friend, whoended his life by jumping from the terrace of the building he lived 
in, a scant 5 minutes after we had spoken on the telephone.  I recall the last 
conversation.  He seemedto be in a hurry and wanted to end our conversation.  
It bothered me at the time.I still ask myself if somehow I had failed him.  I 
wonder what leads a person to take this ultimate step.Clearly, a person who 
takes this final step is deeply disturbed and wants to end it all.We need a 
suicide prevention life line, telephone number manned by trained volunteers to 
help talk people out of considering suicide.  I don't know if this exists in 
Goa.  If it does, it needs to be given more publicity, to help those who feel 
that life is not worth living.When a person gives up their life, they may have 
solved their problem, but the traumascars their near and dear ones for ever.  
it has been over 40 years since I lost my dear friend, but the memory is so 
vivid, and the grief unabated.  And I still ask myself what I could have done 
to prevent it.  There will never be an answer.Roland,  thank you for taking up 
this very important subject.  Being in the USA at the moment, I will not be 
able to attend, but I will be with you in spirit.With my best wishes.........  
Vivian

      From: Goa Desc <[email protected]>
 To: goanet <[email protected]> 
 Sent: Monday, August 22, 2016 3:06 AM
 Subject: [Goanet] FRIDAY BALCAO to focus on Suicide Prevention on 26th August
   
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Dear Cybergaonkars on Goanet,

We continue with FRIDAY BALCAO
on 26th August from 4pm to 6pm
at Goa Desc Resource Centre
No.11, Liberty Apartments,
Feira Alta, Mapusa.

TOPIC: Suicide Prevention: Need to take the campaign forward in Goa
SPEAKER: Open Discussion

We invite you to express your viewpoint
by attending the FRIDAY BALCAO.
If you cannot attend, then please send
your views and action plan suggestions
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best wishes,

Roland Martins
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