27-Dec-2016
Dear Friend,
As believers we feel that if God were to tell us exactly what He wanted of us 
and how He wanted us to act we would gladly do His will. But are we doing His 
will in our daily life? Are we collaborating with His plans? Yes, we profess to 
be ready to do God’s will but we want to do it according to our plans. We pride 
in doing things ‘Our way’. God’s word proposes Mary as the model for preparing 
ourselves for the New Year by blessing God and asking for His blessing for the 
year. Have a ‘thanksgiving’ weekend! -Fr. Jude
Sun Ref. New Year: ‘O God, Be gracious and bless us, like Mary our Mother!’ 
1-Jan-2017Num. 16: 22-27;          Gal. 4: 4-7;          Luke 2: 16-21;

In the first reading there is the triple blessing imparted to the people by the 
temple priest. Yahweh’s name three times invoked marked the plenitude, 
perfection and the solemnity of the formula. Three was a sacred number among 
the Jews just as it was among the pagans. The petitions reach a climax in the 
prayer for peace; peace included everything they could desire. To let his face 
shine on one meant that God was well disposed to one. To uncover his face to 
one meant expressing his benevolence in an even stronger way. The Israelites 
were asked to call down God’s blessings on one another; others could invoke 
God’s blessings on us. We need others to be blessed by God.
Count your blessingsI was walking along a back street in New York City when I 
noticed what I thought was a beggar sitting along the footpath. I was about to 
shake my head and pass by when I realized that he was not drunk, but blind. 
Wondering why he should be competing with the Bowery bums for alms, I said, 
“Don’t you think you would be doing something better in some place like Park 
Avenue?” I shall always remember his reply, “Yes, I guess I could take in more 
money up there, but I’d rather stay here. When poor people see someone worse 
off than themselves, it makes them feel better. So I know I’m not just taking 
people’s money, I’m giving them something in return.”
W. M. Chambless in ‘1000 Stories you can use’
In today’s gospel we see the reaction of the shepherds to the good news, we see 
the response of Mary and we read of the circumcision of Jesus when he was given 
the name Jesus. We believe it was easy for the shepherds to believe for they 
were present there when these events took place. But did it make things easy? 
In fact seeing might have made believing more difficult! What they saw was a 
frail, little child in need of being fed and clothed, dependant on others. 
Could this be the Son of God? There seems to be nothing extraordinary about 
him. He was in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger, both signs of poverty and 
want. Yet they believed that this was the Son of God. They not only believed 
but acted on the message they had heard. They journeyed and found the child, 
and worshipped him. They told Mary what they had heard and went back full of 
joy thanking God for the privilege of seeing the incarnate Son of God. Faith is 
one of the great blessings that believers receive from God. Without faith we 
look at life missing what God is doing for us in the world around us. Faith 
makes us see things differently. It is faith that fills us with joy as we can 
see God acting in all things. We see this in the reaction of Mary, she pondered 
all that she saw and heard and experienced in her heart. She could see the hand 
of God working through all the happenings there. She had no complaints, and she 
praised and worshipped this infant Son of God. The last part of the Gospel 
tells us that on the eight day, Jesus was circumcised and given the name Jesus. 
Jesus is as close as the mention of his name. Calling his name is a great 
blessing!
A pretty crib or…Once there was a parish which had a beautiful crib. The 
parishioners, who for the most part were white and well-off, were very proud of 
it. Mary was depicted as a handsome young maiden, and Joseph a strong man with 
a serene expression. The infant had the face of an angel. The shepherds were 
dressed as gentlemen. The background consisted of low hills with a gorgeous 
castle perched on the summit of one of them. The star-strewn sky completed the 
idyllic picture. Then a new parish priest was appointed to the parish. One of 
the first things he did was to change the crib. Mary and Joseph and the infant 
Jesus were now coloured, as were the shepherds. The backdrop consisted of a 
shanty town with rows of impoverished shacks. The scene spoke of poverty and 
deprivement. The devout parishioners took an instant dislike to it. They 
insisted that their traditional crib be put back. -When we look at the crib, 
everything seems so pretty, so peaceful so orderly; not a cry is heard from the 
child, not a sound from the donkey or the oxen, not a smell of any kind. The 
subdued lights add a surreal quality to the whole scene. With our inward ear we 
hear the singing of the angels, and with our inward eye we see the star which 
led the Magi to Bethlehem. We have a tendency to pretty up the Christmas story. 
But in doing so, we distance it from ourselves. We empty it of much of the 
meaning it carries for us.Flor McCarthy in ‘New Sunday and Holy Day Liturgies’
The blessing of presenceSt. Anthony’s is a home to a small number of endangered 
boys. The boys had to be removed from their own homes, or have run away from 
their homes, because of difficult situations. Not surprisingly, they are not 
the easiest of kids to deal with. The home is staffed by qualified social 
workers, who in the circumstances do a very good job. They work shifts and do 
not live in the home. Brother Aidan also works for those boys. But unlike the 
paid staff, he lives on the premises. It is his home too. He tries to be a 
father figure and an elder brother to the youth. It is not the easiest or 
quietest place to live. But Aidan likes it. And the fact that he lives on the 
premises makes a big difference to the kids. Aidan tells how one day he met one 
of the kids on the street. The kid greets him warmly and in the course of a 
chat said, “You’re different Brother Aidan. The staff go home every evening, 
but you live with us.” Brother Aidan knows all the youth by name. He eats and 
drinks with them, listens to their stories, lets them know with words, 
handshakes, and hugs that he truly loves them. Presence is very important. Our 
presence with others is the deepest expression of our love for them; it is the 
best gift we can give others. –Mary was present to her son in life and as he 
died on the cross. She is present to us as well, our greatest blessing.Flor 
McCarthy in ‘New Sunday and Holy Day Liturgies’
A great blessing –the Search for GodYears ago Fulton Oursler was the editor of 
a highly successful national magazine. The story behind his rise to success is 
fascinating. But even more fascinating is the story of his search for God. As a 
reporter for the ‘Baltimore American’, Oursler had covered Methodist meetings, 
Baptist Conventions, and outdoor revivals. He had even waited for ghosts in 
darkroom séances. “Out of all of this” he says, “I emerged at the age of 30 a 
self-styled agnostic.” But instead of finding peace, his unbelief left him 
totally empty inside. Eventually the emptiness and the unhappiness turned into 
a gnawing depression. Then one day serious trouble threatened his family. He 
needed help. But the kind of help he needed was not the kind of help his 
friends could give. There was no one to whom he could turn, not even God, for 
he did not believe in God. One windy day in New York he was walking down Fifth 
Avenue. He came to the Cathedral. He stopped, looked at it and thought. He was 
desperate. Minutes later he found himself walking up the steps, going inside 
and sitting down. After a few minutes of collecting his thoughts, he bowed his 
head and asked for the gift of faith. He sat there a while, then got up, and 
walked over to the Chapel of Our Lady in the Cathedral. He went inside, knelt 
down, and prayed the following prayer: “In ten minutes or less I may change my 
mind. I may scoff at all this and love error again. Pay no attention to me 
then. For this little time I am in my right mind and heart. This is my best 
–take it and forget the rest, and, if you are really there, help me.” At that 
moment, he said, there began a remarkable transformation in his life. The 
transformation ended in his becoming a deeply committed Christian. Fulton 
Oursler’s search for God ended in the House of God. And his spiritual birth 
into a new life began in a chapel dedicated to Mary the Mother of God.Mark Link 
in ‘Sunday Homilies’
All is well! All things shall be well!They say Robert Louis Stevenson told this 
story first. It seems a storm caught a sea faring vessel off a rocky coast. The 
winds and the waves threatened to drive the boat to its destruction. In the 
midst of the terror, one daring passenger, contrary to orders, made his way 
across the ship. Grouping along the passageway, he found the pilot house. Then 
he beheld an intriguing sight. The ship’s pilot was lashed to his post. Secure 
against the raging elements, he held the wheel fast, turning the wheel inch by 
inch once more out to sea. The pilot saw the watcher and smiled. The daring 
passenger found his way below deck where the other passengers were huddled. 
Encouragingly, he said, “I have seen the face of the pilot, and he smiled. All 
is well.”Frank Michalic in ‘Stories You can Use’
Be with us Mary along the Way, and all will be well!

Fr. Jude Botelho
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PS. The stories, incidents and anecdotes used in the reflections have been 
collected over the years from books as well as from sources over the net and 
from e-mails received. Every effort is made to acknowledge authors whenever 
possible. If you send in stories or illustrations I would be grateful if you 
could quote the source as well so that they can be acknowledged if used in 
these reflections. These reflections are also available on my Web site 
www.NetForLife.net Thank you.

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