06-Feb-2017
Dear Friend,
When evaluating ourselves, we feel we are good law-abiding people because we 
have not murdered anybody, we are not in the habit of stealing anything from 
our neighbours, we are Sunday-mass-going Catholics, and we say our prayers and 
mind our own business! But is that all that Jesus asks of us? Doing the minimum 
that the law expects from us? Today Jesus challenges us to go beyond, to do the 
maximum we can for God and our neighbour, to go beyond the letter of the law, 
to its spirit! Have a ‘self-confronting’ weekend! –Fr. Jude
Sun Ref. Sixth Sunday: ‘They are happy who freely follow God’s law!’ 
12-Feb-2017Sirach 15: 15-20;          1 Cor. 2: 6-10;          Matt. 5: 17-37;

The first reading from the Book of Sirach stresses the free will of human 
beings. It says that all human beings are free to choose either between good 
and evil. God meant us to stay in his family not by force but out of love, that 
is why he gave us freedom to reject the life he offers or accept it, to observe 
or violate the guidelines to happiness that he established for us all out of 
love. Today we have to make a choice of how we will live. Our happiness or 
unhappiness depends on our choices.
Beyond the letter of the LawWhile explaining the ABCs of Christianity to an 
aged tribal chieftain, a missionary was stressing the don’ts more than the 
do’s. “You mean I must not take my friends’ wives?” clarifies the chieftain. 
“That’s right!” said the missionary. “And not rob their goats and cattle?” The 
missionary nodded. “And not kill warring chieftains?” queried the chieftain 
again. “Yes!” replied the missionary. “Then,” concluded the chieftain, “I’ll be 
a good Christian because I am too old to do any of those things.” We often 
reduce Christianity to a long list of don’ts forgetting that the essence of 
Christianity is the ‘spirit’ behind them.Francis Gonsalves in ‘Sunday Seeds for 
Daily Deeds’
For the third consecutive Sunday the gospel is from the Sermon on the Mount 
where Jesus sets out his programme for the kingdom. Today’s extract gives us 
some of the rules for the road. But there is a huge contrast between the 
understanding of laws as presented by the scribes and Pharisees and the deeper 
meaning of religious conversion as preached by Jesus. This passage specifically 
highlights the laws forbidding murder, adultery, divorce and swearing. Jesus 
does not stop at the letter of the law but reaches into the virtue that gives 
meaning to the law. Jesus speaks of what has been heard in the past and what 
has to be listened to now. Jesus is not changing the Law and the traditions 
passed on through the prophets. He is applying a proper spirit to what has 
become too legalistic. He explains the ‘dictates of the law’ were for the head 
to guide the five senses. The spirit of Jesus was to form the heart as well as 
the mind. Jesus then focuses on two of the basic energies within us which are 
the sources of sin if they remain unchecked: anger and lust. All of us have 
anger in us and it is normal to feel angry at times. Instead of just expressing 
our anger we need to look at the cause of our anger. We can’t avoid getting 
angry, but we can avoid acting out our anger. Jesus tells us to seek to be 
reconciled. Jesus does not espouse a minimalist approach to morality. Jesus 
enlarges the prohibition of murder to embrace anger, the prohibition of 
adultery to include lustful glances, and the prohibition of false oaths to 
include any kind of swearing. Jesus’ new law is not a soulless set of don’ts. 
He asks us to look deep within ourselves at our inner motive: Why am I doing 
what I am doing? And why am I not doing what I ought to be doing? Ultimately, 
there is only one precept that we need to embrace if we are to live in his 
kingdom: the command of loving our neighbour. Only love will help us to live 
for God.
Passion and ReasonThe Greek philosopher, Plato, four hundred years before 
Christ, wrote of two horses in the human heart, Passion and Reason. Passion is 
the wild untamed horse with boundless strength and energy, but very hard to 
control and direct. Reason is the tamed horse, accustomed to the reins, 
disciplined in stride and responding to directions. A chariot hitched to a pair 
of Passions might go anywhere but would surely crash or overturn before long. 
However, a charioteer who selects a pair of Reasons will be too cautious and 
fearful to go anywhere worthwhile. But if Passion and Reason can be paired, 
then the powerful energy is harnessed and the journey of life can be enjoyed. – 
The teaching of Jesus strongly affirms the need of rules, but rules are to be 
understood as a means to the end, which is a life of spiritual strength and 
commitment.Sylvester O’Flynn in ‘The Good News of Mathew’s Year’
Anger destroyed his lifeTwo great men were born in the year 1564 A.D. One man- 
Shakespeare lived to the age of fifty-two and became the greatest dramatist of 
the English language. The other- Christopher Marlow perished midway in his life 
at the age of twenty-nine, because of his anger. Christopher wrote some of the 
best tragical plays at a very young age. One of his best plays is “The tragical 
life of Dr. Faustus.” Had he lived longer he probably would have become greater 
than Shakespeare. He was a man given to anger. He picked up a quarrel with a 
man in a tavern. That man challenged him to a sword fight unto death. They both 
fought and Christopher was mortally wounded and later succumbed to his 
injuries. A great promise was terminated because of anger.John Rose in ‘John’s 
Sunday Homilies’
“Take me to a better neighbourhood!”Several years ago William F. Merton of Mt. 
Clements, Michigan, wrote to Reader’s Digest to tell of a memorable argument he 
had with his wife. The argument was well underway as they left the party one 
evening. Once they were in the car, words were flying. The area they were 
driving through was not the best, so they stopped arguing just long enough to 
lock the doors. Then they started again. Merton’s wife had really worked up a 
storm, and after a few choice words from him, she shouted, “Stop the car and 
let me get out!” Merton pulled over to the curb. His wife unlocked the door and 
got out, but then looked around and got back in again. Looking a little 
sheepish she said, “Take me to a better neighbourhood.”William F. Merton in 
“Our Argument….Argument too” –Reader’s Digest Oct. 1983
The forbidden AngerLittle Johnny had a quarrel with his younger brother, Willy. 
Before he said his night prayers, Johnny’s mother said to him, “Now I want you 
to forgive your brother.” But Johnny was not in a forgiving mood.” No, I won’t 
forgive him”, he said. Mother tried persuasions of every motherly variety, but 
nothing worked. Finally she said, “What if your brother were to die tonight? 
How would you feel if you knew that you hadn’t forgiven him?” Johnny gave in or 
so it seemed. “Alright, I forgive him,” he said, “but if he is alive in the 
morning, I’ll get even with him.” The gospel invites us to reconcile with our 
brothers and sisters before we come to him.John Pichappilly in ‘The Table of 
the Word’
Develop the virtue of forgivenessOnce the son of King Louis XVI was taken 
prisoner by a rival nation and sent to the torture room. The French Dauphin was 
held prisoner by one of the most difficult jailors. The jailor was waiting to 
lay his hands upon this poor helpless child, for having been born into the 
royal family. Everyday, the jailor would increase his torture a little more, 
and each time the child would quietly bear it all, praying to God. One day the 
jailor asked him, “What would you do, Carpeto, if the Vendeanos set you free? 
What would you do with me? Would you have me hanged?” The little boy smiled and 
said: “I would forgive you.” Forgiveness is one of the noblest virtues of man. 
As St. Francis of Sales once said, “If, someone in hatred were to pluck out my 
left eye, I think I could look kindly at him with my right eye. If he plucked 
that one out too, I would still have the heart with which to love him.”G. 
Francis Xavier in ‘101 Inspiring Stories’
Let’s let go of our anger and lust and reach out with forgiveness and love!
 
Fr. Jude Botelho botelhoj...@gmail.com
PS. The stories, incidents and anecdotes used in the reflections have been 
collected over the years from books as well as from sources over the net and 
from e-mails received. Every effort is made to acknowledge authors whenever 
possible. If you send in stories or illustrations I would be grateful if you 
could quote the source as well so that they can be acknowledged if used in 
these reflections.These reflections are also available on my Web site 
www.NetForLife.net Thank you.

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