DIVORCE HAS A SOLUTION. On the wedding day of her most beloved daughter, the loving mother gifted her a present, a bank pass book with a deposit of Rs 100K, She suggested to her to add to it in any denomination only on happy occasions and to note briefly the event. She showed it to her husband after marriage, who wholeheartedly welcomed the novel idea .Both of them kept up with the deposits over period of time , when the occasions arose Familiarity breeds contempt and after years of living together , as usual resulted in loss of shine and diminishing, concerns and commitments towards each other, Slowly they started to move away from each other ,distancing more and more as a couple ,they once used to be, although living together under the same roof , but still so distant in their relationship.They just could not understand and tolerate each other with frictions , conflicts, impatience having got better of them. The wife finally reached the breaking point in her relationship to the point of no return. She contacted her mother in great anguish and expressed her final desire to severe relationship of solemn religious vow to live together in good times and bad, sickness and health until God do us apart ..Her disappointed mother suggested to her to do as she liked best,, but first exhaust the balance in her account of happiness. As she waited at the Bank, for her turn, pondering over many deposits and occasions of joy, she got an idea She went back home and told her husband to withdraw all the deposit before the divorce.. The Husband like wise repeated her steps at the bank and came back.. He handed back her the pass book without a comment To the her surprise the husband had made a fresh deposit of Rs50 K They hugged each other with tears of joy flowing down their cheeks like a flowing stream of river Needless to say that they discovered each other anew and lived happily to get her thereafter with remorse for the DIVORCE they had contemplated with misgivings and misunderstandings that kindle the spark of love once again
In a married life to keep it alive and vibrant , there is a need to rediscover, reinvent constantly our daily commitments No marriage is to be considered aged and withering. Never take for granted each other and needs. Communication channels need to be kept open and expressed, no matter how insignificant they might appear, Little things that used to be PART OF YOUR VOCABULARY , observations, appreciations, gratitude, matter the most .They keep the amber's of love burning, making living together a most precious gift of relation. Always find time for each other and consciously notice each others presence without being complacent. The need to adjust, accommodate should have no limits of elasticity Nelson Lopes Chinchinim
