Marriage calls for adjustment if it involves moving to the husband residence This phase can make or break a happy marriage.Couples prefer a separate home and it is a wise decision under any circumstances.The wife has to adjust to her partner, in-laws and neighbours.She has to forgo comforts of understanding of her parents and also miss her close friends She is under constant watch and her sudden adjustment in the kitchen , food, upkeep can be strenuous on her mental health.Her own priorities are relegated to the second order of preference .If she is not accepted as a member of the family and not maid then it will wreck irreversibly peace and happiness The scope for misunderstanding and misinterpretation is large in the new home The adjustment for the husband too is challenging due to chosing between divided loyalties The early start of happy marriage can best be secured by separate residence with all the cosequences of disadvantages and criticism of abandoning parents. The wife too does the same but that is expected normal in the society Nelson Lopes Chinchinm
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