Often we resent people using need based approach to fulfill their needs.It may be financial, emotional, social ,psychological etc.It is a normal human behaviour and we all do it sometime or the other.We detest about the opportunity being used as an emergency lamp,or a spare wheel, but that is the purpose after all.People seek intervention of God and knock at his door mostly in distress..Is it opportunistic to exploit a relationship for selfish ends?..Must we avoid this trap of exploitation irrespective of gravity of the situation, specially being aware of ingratitude in the past.If our actions are motivated by values of indebtedness or calculated risks involvelled then our behaviour will be negative.Expectattions of return favour are uncharitable,specially when the circumstances call for sympathetic considerations Remember ,we think of a candle only to dispel darkness. Refusal,denial or indifference is egoistic pride that need to be curbed for better of humanity and to rise up to the ocassion to address the need without resorting to taunts of . humiliations.Be glad that your worth is like a candle to dispel gloom of darkness and bring solace and comfort in someone's life Nelson Lopes Chinchinim Nelson Lopes Chinchinim https://lopesnelsonnat.wordpress.com
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