Pride and Ego of Position Position and power often bring with them a sense of accomplishment, authority, and control. While holding a position of responsibility is an opportunity to lead and serve, it can also inflate one's pride and ego, distorting one’s view of reality. The chair is their whole world and greatest attest to flaunt.The emphasis is on benefits , like fame, gain respect and adulation of social importance.It can raise status in society , coupled with respect and honour.The focus is on merit to hold the position and to deliver.The honour is enhanced, if the status is gained by merit and not influence of godfather.The pride of position is the belief that a title or rank makes one superior to others and gives the feeling of being different This pride can evolve into ego—a dangerous self-importance that blinds a person to humility, teamwork, and ethical conduct.
Ego rooted in position often leads to arrogance, poor judgement. The alignment with those who simply pay lip service is natural comfort.The decision-making, and the inability to accept criticism. reflects poor self esteem. Leaders intoxicated by their title may forget that respect must be earned, not demanded. They may ignore the voices of those below them, assuming their rank grants them wisdom above reproach. This mindset can isolate them from the truth, damage relationships, and ultimately harm the organization or community they serve. True leadership lies in humility , simplicity an opportunity to serve.. The best leaders recognize that their position is temporary and meant for service, not self-glorification. They listen, learn, and lead with empathy. They understand that the position is a platform—not a pedestal. Pride and ego also stunt personal growth. When individuals believe they’ve reached the pinnacle by virtue of their role, they stop learning and evolving. This stagnation not only limits their potential but also diminishes their impact. Ultimately, positions come and go. Titles are fleeting. What endures is how we treat others, how we uplift those around us, and how we use our position to foster progress. When we let go of ego and embrace humility, our leadership becomes authentic and impactful. The measure of greatness lies not in the height of the position, but in the depth of character. Pride fades, but humility leaves a lasting impression When the chair is lost so often is position, power and respect The world comes crashing down when the reality dawns.The salutes, invitation dry up.The importance and glory just fades as if it was a dream.When service was delivered without expectations , favour , that alone leaves lasting impressions of justice and a legacy that carves out footprints in the hearts and minds of those whom you touched.Return to normal life of having lived well as per exacting standards of service is gratifying and lasting satisfaction Retired life is not a barometer of recognition, appreciation and acknowledments.Best to accept politely and in humility any signs of gratitude not as special favours dispensed Drowning in past glory of status, position and power is in vain People are selfish they genuflect for their personal benefit and that is the end of their relations .The biblical story of leppers reminds of the degree of gratitude .People, including children assume service that it is obligation and duty Service without expectations is the best antidote for regrets Nelson Lopes Chinchinim . Nelson Lopes Chinchinim https://lopesnelsonnat.wordpress.com
