Dear Friends Incidence of rape or molestation to foreign tourists by Indians .This is because men now a days are sexually starving.A married man finds his spouse completely tired and fag out when she returns from her job that she is not prepared to enjoy sex with him. Further more man's instinct is aroused due to TV and pornography. See how the recruits of police force molested our girls from Home science ? They had mobiles with pornography. albert > Date: Wed, 30 Jan 2008 02:14:11 +0530> From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: > [email protected]; [EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: [Goanet-News] White > Woman's Woe ... For Indian men, nothing's fairer than white, and nothing > 'more available' ...> > > http://www.outlookindia.com/full.asp?fodname=20080204&fname=Col+Bhaichand+(F)&sid=1> > > OPINION> White Woman's Woe> For Indian men, nothing's fairer than white, > and nothing 'more available' ...> Bhaichand Patel> > I know a Romanian > student who is studying classical dancing on> scholarship in Delhi. One > evening, an autorickshaw driver extended his> hand and tried to grope her > thighs. She hit him so hard with her bag> that he is not likely to forget > that in a hurry. Many foreign women> I've met have similar India stories to > tell.> > Why do Indian men behave so badly with foreign women? Recently they> > arrested a security guard in a backwaters resort in Kerala for trying> to > molest two Canadian girls aged 12 and 14. The family cut short> their holiday > and left. The police in Goa are looking for a man who> allegedly raped a > British woman after giving her a lift. An American> tourist was sexually > assaulted in a temple in Pushkar. A guesthouse> owner in Udaipur is accused > of raping a journalist from England. The> list is endless. All this and more > happened in the last month or so.> > If this state of affairs continues, word > will spread that India is no> longer a safe place for women to travel. In > Saudi Arabia, women are> not allowed to drive, they cannot teach male > students or treat male> patients. We are much more civilised. We just don't > allow them to walk> safely on our streets, especially if they happen to be > white.> > By the time you read this, the alarm bells would have rung in the> > Union tourism ministry, and the minister would have called a meeting> to see > how female visitors can be protected from our desi louts. The> situation > might improve for a while in the coming months, but you can> bet your tourist > dollar that it will be business as usual after that.> > Sudhir Kakar, who > lives in Goa, says that a white woman walking alone> there is likely to be > stopped by someone on a motorcycle and asked> point-blank, "Do you want to be > f*****d?" Or words to that effect.> Kakar is an authority on human behaviour > and I asked him why this> should be so. "The Indian woman is a maa, a beti or > a bahu for these> men. The white woman, on the other hand, is fair game. She > is a> whore."> > Sexual harassment of women is a worldwide problem. They get > their> bottoms pinched in Rome. In New York, men on construction sites will> > make lewd remarks to pretty women passing by. The behaviour of Indian> men is > less innocuous; there is nothing playful about it. He wants to> bed that > woman, nothing less. And he is prepared to use force if> necessary. He has > the impression that westerners treat sex as casually> as shaking hands.> > > This is racism, but there is more to it. Indian men prefer fair women> to > dusky ones. And there is nothing fairer than white. If you need> convincing > on that point, I suggest you turn to the matrimonial pages> of our Sunday > newspapers. All the potential brides have fair> complexions. The dozens of > creams in the market that claim to whiten> the skin all do brisk business.> > > An Indian man may not be willing to marry a white woman but, if he had> a > choice, he would prefer to have sex with a white woman rather than> an Indian > one. There are other factors involved in the harassment of> white women—lack > of sexual outlet, men still being virgins well past> puberty, sometimes > frigid wives—but the colour of the victim's skin> plays an important part. > You will not find African women being> harassed in this country.> > Tourists > are more vulnerable. They usually haven't been long enough in> the country to > read the signals right, to figure out that their polite> response to what > seems to be a helpful, friendly gesture is often> construed as a readiness > for sex. White women who have made India> their home have less of a problem. > They have taken to wearing salwar> kameez, they have some knowledge of Hindi, > which establishes their> local credentials, they don't accept invitations for > a drink or a> movie or a ride from men they do not know. They have learnt how > to> freeze someone who is too persistent in his attentions or getting> > uncomfortably familiar, and to walk in a manner that puts out a clear> > signal: don't mess with me.> > The Lonely Planet guide advises female > tourists to refrain from> wearing sleeveless blouses, tight-fitting clothing > or from trying the> bra-less look. "Getting constantly stared at is something > you'll> simply have to get used to. Just walk confidently and refrain from> > returning male stares, as this may be considered a come-on."> > That's sound > advice. The Indian woman would have learnt these tricks> with her mother's > milk! _________________________________________________________________ Tried the new MSN Messenger? It’s cool! Download now. http://messenger.msn.com/Download/Default.aspx?mkt=en-in
