Dear Every one,
My name is Chandrakanth, I am married to a gril from Siolim, Bardez. Our wedding took place at the Siolim chaple opposite to Holy Cross Convent on 16 January, 1998. Both my wife and myself led a normal life of course with all the sugar and spice and some bitter pills that comes with the married life, I was working and earning well, as some of us less fortunates would have it I lost my well paying job and had to make do with a job with meager salary. And to be very honest was just not able to get back to the normal stream of good jobs, during this period things kept getting bad with our relationship, she would fight and stop talking to me for months to gather. This went on for 3 years, I finally was on my feet after gathering some courage started a small business that of doing PR (media) and started also doing some events with corporates, it all seemed well till the end of December 2006 when we both went and spent time in her parents place for the Christmas and New year and now after so many years she agreed to start a family (I mean having a Child) this was in October that year. I WAS REALLY ON TOP OF THE WORLD I really mean every single sound of what I am saying. After we returned from Goa on the 3rd Jan, it was all going well, on the 8th or 9th she picked up a small matter and quarlled with me and that was the end it was all over she never spoke to me, she never cooked for me and started treating me like I was some paying guest in my own house. I felt this too was going to get ok after sometime but never to be even after 5 months, now I had to do something about it at the same time my business started to slump, one can imagine what I was going through. I one day confronted and had big arrgument, that day she started demanding me saying that show me so much money (it was some lakhs) it would be stupied to mention the amount here. How could any one with no business and who is trying to get the family in order have that kind of money and that too within a week or 15 days that she mentioned I don't exactly remember. After some convincing from one of our naigbhour she agreed to be reasonable but not really. I was still not able to talk to her like as in normal course. Once again I had to confront but this time it was my bad luck, she had already made some well thought moves like she had informed people like womens organisiation the leader of whose brother was a noted politician and had some good connection with the police etc. The day after the second confrontation they along with one of her sister and a family counciler who we visited landed up at our house and started saying that she has to go out of our house. I put my foot down and said that she will not go any where from here, after long arrgument our counciler suggested that she go to her mothers place for a week so that things could get better. I felt it was a good choice, I thought the mother would atleast help us settle our issues. I was fooled here the mother instead of helping the daughter set right the home, started to tell me to forget her daughter.. that was the end she never returned to me, just one day on the 9th June she came with some cops and took her things and left, even after I begged of her not leave. I have not signed any annulment papers or any thing of that sort, because no matter what ever we have gone through or has happned I would like to take it as one experience of life. But I still love her very much and I am waiting for her return. I can now say this because now I am working in one of the largest company in Muscat, Oman and with very good salary and status. I just got to know that she is currently in U.A.E. and is getting married on Monday. 8 Sept. 2008 in Sharjah to some American. IS this right what ever she is doing?? I any way not asking for your judgement.. I am asking all you people here to help me get her back in my life because I want to give her everything that she desired from me and want to prove to her that my love to her is not a fake one but because of what ever bad times one goes through that all this had happend. I know you would ask why have you not done anything so far or not spoken to her family. I have been trying all possible ways to get my wife back in my life. So Please: If any one out here feels I am worth your help. Please call me on 00968 9950 2434. -- With best wishes & regards Chandrakanth. N. S
