My dear Samirbab, I am happy that you are happy with the responses to the following questions.
Q1: Grateful if you would please elucidate why you believe that Rajan's attack on Oscar was 'below-the-belt' Q2: Grateful if you would please advise us what Oscar has done more than Rajan (besides Medicine) To me ...the answers are fluff. Accordingly, I believe (unless you provide better answers) that your attack on Rajanbab was totally unjustified. I will however, concentrate on the following question from me and your answer. Q 3: You are like a RC priest doing marriage counselling and advising family planning. How do you, Samir, know what truly is a 'married man's love for a girl friend'? You (Samirbab) wrote the following (and even asked a question): True love is characterized by commitment. If a married man has true love for his girl friend, he will divorce his wife and marry his girlfriend. It is unfortunate if you havent still figured this out, Jose. jc's RESPONSE: Thank you Samirbab. Even Fr. Ivo would be proud of your answer. I'd, however, say the following: a: Commitment is NOT a one-way street. a1: It is difficult to love a person (or entity) who/which comes in and takes over running your house and does things without even bothering to ask .... May I come in? Never mind which other person was living with me previously. The place did not legally belong to you ....You trespassed when you came in. a2: It is difficult to love a person (or entity) who/which comes in and destroys your furniture (or environment) a3: It is difficult to love a person (or entity) who/which comes in and just places his/her /its own people (some lesser qualified) to Lord over you. In-laws are fine ....but please do not come and treat my property as yours. It isn't yours. Comprende? a4: It is difficult to love a person (or entity) who/which comes in takes away more funds which you generate than it invests into the development/infrastructure of the relationship/house etc b: I definitely would NOT know about a Married person having a girlfriend. Would you? c: Relationships are built on Trust - not on brute force, thiefing and politics. What do you say? Do you realise WHY I would not seek advice on Marriage (or Girl Friends) from a RC priest or from you? I'd venture to say that both you and the RC priest know equally about Marriage, and that, my dear Samirbab - is not very much. I am praying that both you and the RC priests can somehow modify that situation sometime soon (:-) When you do that ..... I will return to this topic jc boot-licker et al
