30-Mar-2012
 
Dear Friend,
 
Why do people have to suffer and die? If God is a God of love can't he prevent 
the suffering of innocent people? People have always asked these questions and 
to date have not found a meaningful answer to the problem of suffering. 
Suffering and Death remain a mystery to be lived not a problem to be solved! 
The Cross of Christ provides not an answer but points to a way to make 
suffering life-giving. From being an instrument of death, Jesus made it a means 
of love and life! Have a cross-fertilized life! May today be a 'Good' Friday 
for us! Fr. Jude
 
Sunday Reflections: Good Friday "Having loved his own to the very end, He died 
for us!" 6-Apr-2012
Readings: Isaiah 52: 13-53: 12            Hebrews 4: 14-16, 5: 
7-9            John 18: 1-19: 42
 
In todays first reading Isaiah paints a startling portrait of the suffering 
servant of Yahweh. This suffering servant has a dignity about himself and his 
spirit is intact and unbroken in the midst of all that he suffers. Physically 
he was abused and reduced to a subhuman condition:  "There was in him no 
stately bearing to make us look at him, nor appearance that would attract us to 
him. He was spurned and avoided by people, a man of suffering, accustomed to 
infirmity, one of those from whom people hide their faces..." In the face of 
all that he suffered there is no bitterness, no anger, no resentment, no 
complaint. "Though he was harshly treated he submitted and opened not his 
mouth. Isaiah is describing not only the suffering servant but in fact he gives 
us a pen portrait of Jesus himself as he goes to his passion and he also gives 
us a model of how the Christian is called to respond to suffering.
 
"If God knows I am worth it, that's all that matters to me." 
I have told you of Olwen Davies, the middle-aged district nurse who for more 
than twenty years, with fortitude and patience, calmness and cheerfulness, 
served the people of Tregenny. This unconscious selflessness, which above all 
seemed the keynote of her character, was so poorly rewarded, it worried me. 
Although she was much beloved by the people, her salary was most inadequate. 
And late one night after a particularly strenuous case, I ventured a protest to 
her as we drank a cup of tea together. "Nurse" I said, "Why don't you make them 
pay you more? It's ridiculous that you should work for so little." She raised 
her eyebrows slightly. But she smiled. "I have enough to get along." "No, 
really," I persisted, "you ought to have an extra pound a week at least. God 
knows you are worth it." There was a pause. Her smile remained, but her gaze 
held a gravity, an intensity which startled me. "Doctor", she said, "If God 
knows I am worth it, that's all that
 matters to me."
A. J. Cronin in 'Adventures in Two Worlds'
 
In the Gospel there are several facets of the passion we could successfully 
reflect upon: The agony in the garden and the fearless confrontation of Jesus 
with those who came to arrest him. The triple denial of Peter in the presence 
of a maid servant. The trial before Caiphas in the Pretorium and then his 
confrontation with Pilate and the lingering unanswered question: "What is 
truth?" We could meditate on the Way of the Cross and his final moments on the 
cross itself leading to his painful cry, echoed by all who suffer: "My God my 
God why have you forsaken me." We could ask the questions: Why did the Father 
permit the Son to suffer?  Why does God seem to abandon Jesus? Does God abandon 
his people, his beloved when they suffer? For that matter is the Father 
oblivious to the passion of his Son and to all his sons and daughters who even 
now suffer in the world today?  The Father was not an executioner but a fellow 
sufferer. This idea of the Father
 suffering gives us a glimpse into the mystery of human suffering, which 
confronts us on all sides. Suffering that is man-made like wars and terrorism 
and man's inhumanity to man as well as that which results from earthquakes, 
storms, tidal waves, viruses and so many other unexplained causes of suffering 
and death. The Father continues to suffer with his suffering children here on 
earth as he suffered with His Son Jesus Christ. While God does not always 
reveal his power, he always gives us the assurance of his comforting presence. 
We want God to be a powerful God, one who does away with all suffering. In 
Jesus' suffering and dying on the cross, we see as it were, an impotent God, a 
God who is made vulnerable precisely because he loves us is ready to suffer 
with us and for us.
 
Why Death?
Why death now? Why death ever? What is in store for our loved one now? What of 
the bereaved? Even in the presence of vibrant faith, there is often a sense of 
finality, of completion of an era. This atmosphere of finality pervaded Calvary 
on Good Friday. The great hopes of a promising life were dashed. His closest 
friend, John was shattered as he undertook to care for the mother who was 
desolate at the death of her one and only in his early thirties. What grief! 
What disappointment! With more care and sense, it could have been avoided. With 
hindsight it was easy to see that it would end in this way if he insisted on 
justice, forgiveness, love and peace. Now the miracle worker from Nazareth 
failed to come down from the Cross even though he had raised Lazarus from the 
dead. Dead he was now himself, the same as those who had gone before him. But 
not quite same. Even though he died willingly in obedience to the fathers' 
will, he had the power to take up his
 life again. That he would do at the resurrection, but first he would endure 
the intense pain of the human condition. He must know the loneliness of death 
at first hand, the sense of abandonment by God.
Tom Clancy in 'Living the Word'
 
Walk in the Footsteps of Christ
A saintly man named Peter Facelano of Vienna once had a vision in which he 
found himself in a magnificent Cathedral. The floor of the Cathedral was very 
rough and filled with thorns, sharp nails and bits of broken glass. All of a 
sudden the main door flung open and Jesus entered and walked straight towards 
the high altar. As he walked he left behind him clear footprints on the floor. 
Behind him walked his mother, after her came the apostles and then Martyrs, 
confessors, virgins and other holy men and women. But he noticed that each one 
of them was very careful to choose the footprints of Christ and walk exactly in 
those footprints. As long as they did that, they walked without feeling any 
pain or prick from the thorns, nails or broken glasses. Suddenly a side floor 
was flung open and a big crowd rushed inside. They tried to rush towards the 
high altar but none could go very far. They cut and bruised soles of their feet 
so badly that they stumbled and
 fell to the ground bleeding. Lying prostrate on the ground, while nursing his 
wounds, one of them accidentally saw the footprints of Christ. Even though it 
was imprinted on the rough and sharp flooring he tried to place his foot on it. 
He felt no pain. Rising to his feet he called out, "Walk in the footprints of 
Christ and you will reach him easily."
Anonymous
 
Ready to Die?
The final sermon that Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. preached before he was 
assassinated was the famous "I have been to the mountaintop" sermon. In it he 
declares, "I have seen the Promised Land, I am not afraid to die, I am ready to 
meet my Maker." He preached this sermon in the evening; he was killed the next 
day. Was it coincidence that he preached those words the day before he died? Or 
could he have had some mystic prevision of his death? It is said he preached 
that sermon very often, possibly a hundred times throughout the country. Andrew 
Young says: "The reason that he could preach that sermon so often was that he 
was always ready to die." He knew that death would come any moment because of 
the challenge that he was continually presenting to the conscience of America. 
He lived life fully and fearlessly. He was convinced of the rightness and 
goodness of what he was doing that he wasn't afraid to die. The Rev. Dr. Martin 
Luther King Jr. had found
 something worth dying for. And so he lived passionately. He had something 
worth living for. In the crucifixion Jesus did not especially teach us how to 
die. He taught us how to live -fearlessly and passionately. The great message 
of the passion of Jesus is to live passionately. We are Christian if we are 
consumed by a burning love; if we are on fire, with an unquenchable thirst to 
know, with an untiring desire for justice in our broken world. "Dive in -don't 
be afraid!" This is how Jesus invites us to live on the day of his passion.
Flor McCarthy in 'New Sunday and Holy Days Liturgies''
 
He Risked His Life, All He Got Was…
One night a fisherman heard a loud splash. A man on a nearby yacht had been 
drinking and had fallen overboard. The fisherman leapt into the cold water and 
rescued the man and revived him with artificial respiration. Then he put the 
man to bed, and did everything he could to make the man comfortable. Finally, 
exhausted by the ordeal, the fisherman swam back to his own boat. The next 
morning the fisherman returned to the yacht to see how the man was doing. "It's 
none of your business," the man shouted defensively. The fisherman reminded the 
man that he had risked his life to save him. But instead of thanking him, the 
man cursed the fisherman and told him that he never wanted to see him around 
again. Commenting on the episode, the fisherman said: "I rowed away from the 
yacht with tears in my eyes. But the experience was worth it, because it gave 
me an understanding of how Jesus felt when he was rejected by those he saved."
Mark Link in 'Journey'
 
Searching for God in Suffering
One of the rabbis who went through the hell of Auschwitz was Hugo Gryn. He 
tells of a rabbi in his synagogue in a small village in Poland. He was trying 
to conduct a service on the Sabbath but one of his congregators, the local 
tailor was creating a disturbance, shaking his fist and muttering to
 himself and disturbing everyone around him. When the service was over the 
rabbi approached him and asked him what on earth was the matter. "Ah!" says the 
tailor. "I got into a terrible argument with God. I said to him, 'Look, I know 
I am not perfect. There have been times when I sat down and had my meal without 
saying the blessing or the grace. And there have been days when I have hurried 
through my prayers. And I must confess that I have sometimes charged people for 
double thread when I only use single, and sometimes I have kept a bit of cloth 
back to make clothes for my own children. So I'm not claiming any special 
privileges. But you, God! You take babies away from their mothers. Young men 
die on the field of battle. People are cut down before their time through 
illness. How can you let this happen? So, let me make a bargain with you! If 
you'll forgive me, I'll forgive you." And the tailor said to the rabbi, "Did I 
do wrong?" "My friend, you had such
 a strong case why did you let God off so easily?" the rabbi replied.
James Feeban in 'Story Power'
 
In the courageous acceptance of suffering may we discover the hidden power of 
God!


Fr. Jude Botelho
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PS. The stories, incidents and anecdotes used in the reflections have been 
collected over the years from books as well as from sources over the net and 
from e-mails received. Every effort is made to acknowledge authors whenever 
possible. If you send in stories or illustrations I would be grateful if you 
could quote the source as well so that they can be acknowledged if used in 
these reflections. These reflections are also available on my web site 
www.netforlife.net Thank you.
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