Former Ugandan Aureo John Macarenhas who passed away in Sydney this week was a
very specail kind of Goan.In a community which is often more vocal for its
petty bickering, squabbling, cheap shots and a penchant for theunkindest cuts
of all, John was an oasis of peace and calm. By his nature and leadership, he
inspired a whole community, including its many young through his work with
Toastmasters. He served the Goan Association wellas an elegant and detail
specific auditor for many years (he was a much admired and respected accountant
inSydney) and later as an honoured trustee. Needless to say he made hundreds of
friends. John was one of life’s rare human beings. When roll call is read out
at the final judgment, it will indeed say: This wasa very good man indeed. He
was a softly spoken man, given to quiet thought and considered calculation. He
had an open mind and listened to the variety of argument and disposition in
life. He considered every thought, idea, argument, campaign, with a feast of
fairness and justice. And he manned up to his point of view and defended it
inthe interest of justice for all. He may not have been a saint, but in the
eyes of the many people he touched and thosethat came to respect and love him,
he did indeed come close. He was a big man, endowed with a large heart full
ofcharity, kindness and caring for everyone who came his way. It is a cliche
these days to say “ I am glad he came intomy life and shared his thoughts and
ideas.” but it is true. I cry a little for myself and others like me who will
missa magnificent human being. Fare thee well, dear John, you were great in
this life. For Ivy, his wideow, I wish you strength, God’s grace, and
fortitude to continue as John would have wanted you to. My sincere condolences
to his children Kevin, Carol, Derek. What a man, what a friend, what a quiet
hero! Cyprian Fernandes
