[The "unknown other half'"

Incidentally, as it looks, the elder daughter of Mrs Kaul didn't come down
to attend Vajpayee's last rites.
The younger daughter lit the fire at the funeral pyre.
It's her act of self-assertion that apparently sort of forced lifting of
the veil, at least partly.

《Narendra Modi, who was busy campaigning for the 2014 Lok Sabha Elections,
could not attend the last rites of Mrs Kaul, unarguably Delhi's 'most
famous unknown other half'.
...
When Atal Bihari Vajpayee passed away last week, the stories of the elusive
Mrs Kaul came up in discussions from drawing rooms to debates. Who was Mrs
Kaul, who was known more famously by her husband's surname than as
Vajpayee's companion?
...
By 1978, when Atal Bihari Vajpayee was the external affairs minister in the
Morarji Desai government, Mr and Mrs Kaul and their daughters had all moved
in to his Lutyens' house at 5, Raisina Road. Atal adopted Mrs Kaul's
daughter Namita and later, her granddaughter Niharika.
...
Atal Bihari Vajpayee's friendship with Mrs Kaul was not spoken of in the
media. There was an unwritten protocol that neither the media breached, nor
Vajpayee ever felt the need to explain.
...
Atal Bihari Vajpayee was bed-ridden when Mrs Kaul died. He could not attend
her last rites. When he died last week, Mrs Kaul's daughter Namita lit the
pyre as an entire nation watched in rapt attention.》]

https://www.indiatoday.in/india/story/who-was-mrs-kaul-atal-bihari-vajpayee-1319036-2018-08-20

Who was Mrs Kaul? The Atal friendship Indian politics will never forget

Ananya Bhattacharya
New Delhi

August 20, 2018
UPDATED: August 20, 2018 17:22 IST

HIGHLIGHTS
Mrs Kaul was the quiet force behind former Indian prime minister Atal
Bihari Vajpayee.
Atal and Rajkumari knew each other since their college days.
Mrs Kaul, as Rajkumari was better known as, breathed her last in May 2014.

Atal Bihari Vajpayee's foster granddaughter Niharika and daughter Namita at
the former Prime Minister's funeral on August 17. Photo: Reuters

Four years before Atal Bihari Vajpayee breathed his last, his Krishna Menon
Marg home in Delhi saw a death. There was no media glare. But the house saw
a steady stream of visitors including the then Congress president Sonia
Gandhi on May 3, 2014.

Narendra Modi, who was busy campaigning for the 2014 Lok Sabha Elections,
could not attend the last rites of Mrs Kaul, unarguably Delhi's 'most
famous unknown other half'.

Top BJP leaders including LK Advani, Amit Shah as well as Congress
politician Jyotiraditya Scindia attended the cremation of Mrs Rajkumari
Kaul, a longtime companion of former Indian Prime Minister Atal Bihari
Vajpayee.

Mrs Rajkumari Kaul died of a cardiac arrest in 2014. Her death marked the
end of a friendship unlike any Indian politics has ever seen or will
probably ever see.

Rajkumari Kaul was Atal Bihari Vajpayee's companion for many decades.
Vajpayee adopted her daughter Namita. He stayed with the Kauls for many
decades, through his rise to being India's Prime Minister.

WHO WAS MRS KAUL?

When Atal Bihari Vajpayee passed away last week, the stories of the elusive
Mrs Kaul came up in discussions from drawing rooms to debates. Who was Mrs
Kaul, who was known more famously by her husband's surname than as
Vajpayee's companion?

GWALIOR

In the 40s, Atal Bihari Vajpayee and Rajkumari Haksar went to Victoria
College (later renamed as Laxmibai College) in Gwalior. The youngsters
often wrote to each other to express their feelings. In the severely
conservative Partition years, friendships between girls and boys were not
exactly appreciated. Vajpayee and Kaul's too met a similar fate.

Atal is said to have expressed his feelings for Rajkumari in a letter that
he left in a book in their college library. Rajkumari replied in a similar
fashion, but as fate would have it, the book never reached Atal.

Around the Partition years, Rajkumari's Kashmiri Pandit father Govind
Narain Haksar got her married to a Kashmiri Pandit, Brij Narain Kaul.
Haksar did not want to get his daughter married to the man who would later
go on to change the course of Indian politics.

Vajpayee and Rajkumari Haksar moved on with their respective lives. She
moved to Delhi. He moved to Kanpur, and then Lucknow. BN Kaul was a
professor in Ramjas College in Delhi University and later went on to become
the warden of Ramjas hostel.

DELHI

Atal Bihari Vajpayee breathed his last on August 16, 2018

Years later, when the unmarried Vajpayee had become a full-time politician,
his path crossed with Rajkumari's in Delhi. Rajkumari was now Mrs Kaul, the
wife of Ramjas College professor BN Kaul.

In the 60s, Professor Kaul was the warden of the Ramjas hostel. He
frequently played spoilsport in the plans of hostellers who wanted to stay
late to sneak in a drink or two. Someone devised a plan: complain to Mrs
Kaul. When this bunch of hostellers landed up at Mrs Kaul's door to speak
about her husband and his strict ways, they are said to have encountered
Vajpayee there.

Over the next few years, Atal Bihari Vajpayee remained a frequent visitor
to the Kaul household. He then moved into the Kaul house while the
professor was the Ramjas warden.

LUTYENS'

By 1978, when Atal Bihari Vajpayee was the external affairs minister in the
Morarji Desai government, Mr and Mrs Kaul and their daughters had all moved
in to his Lutyens' house at 5, Raisina Road. Atal adopted Mrs Kaul's
daughter Namita and later, her granddaughter Niharika.

Former President Pranab Mukherjee told Hindustan Times in an interview, "We
lived next door and they made an entrance through a side wall so Vajpayee
and his family members could come easily to our place. He was very fond of
fish. Namita, his foster daughter, used to regularly play at our place. My
wife and Mrs Kaul (Namita's mother) had a very deep bonding. When Namita's
marriage was decided, my wife helped in preparations because the groom was
a Bengali [Namita married Ranjan Bhattacharya]."

POLITICS

Atal Bihari Vajpayee's friendship with Mrs Kaul was not spoken of in the
media. There was an unwritten protocol that neither the media breached, nor
Vajpayee ever felt the need to explain.

His relationship with Mrs Kaul is best summed up in her own words to a
women's magazine - the only interview she ever gave - that once the dirty
rumours (about Atal living in her house) began, she never felt the need to
offer 'apologetic explanations'.

In the same interview, she also said that her friendship with Atal Bihari
Vajpayee was 'way too mature' for anyone to understand, and that her
relationship with her husband was way too strong for these rumours to dent.

Atal Bihari Vajpayee was bed-ridden when Mrs Kaul died. He could not attend
her last rites. When he died last week, Mrs Kaul's daughter Namita lit the
pyre as an entire nation watched in rapt attention.

That is how their lives were. While Vajpayee was the cynosure of all eyes,
Mrs Kaul was the quiet force behind the man.

(The writer tweets as @ananya116)


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