Hello all, dear, dear people on this list!

I don't know if _anyone_ will remember me. I joined h-costume in 1996
and have actually been on it ever since. When Eric Praetzel needed the
1997 archives for his archive page at
http://sca.uwaterloo.ca/~fashion/, I supplied them... so that's me,
just for reference.

I lived in Berlin, Germany at the time, and it's now over 5 years ago
that I announced that I was going to become a h-costume member from
Melbourne, Australia. ... and that I have been since then... but I've
been silent.

Now, I guess I'll have to explain why!

As the archives were online along with my old e-mail address (which
was barbara at math dot tu dash berlin dot de), the address was soon
pretty much useless. It got harvested by e-mail address collectors and
I suspect it became part of a virus kit, because it obviously became
the nominal (fake) sender address of virus e-mails that I, needless to
say, never sent (reading my e-mail mostly with a text-based interface
on unix-like systems). I used to have a pretty clear picture at that
time what viruses where currently around, from the number of 'reply'
e-mails that I got that an e-mail of 'mine' (that I had never sent)
had contained a virus.

So, I've been reluctant to post since then. In fact, this is my
special 'h-costume' mailing address now.

Now I'm back and I'm happy to read so many familiar names, still! I
believe I have only met one member of this list in person -- Bjarne,
we once sat together in a cafe in Kopenhagen. You showed me pictures
of your embroidery and I showed you pictures of someone else's
embroidery (namely that of the gold embroderers of Buchara,
Uzbekistan).

So now, I live in Melbourne, Australia, and a move across countries
like this does have its difficulties, it can also limit one's
creativity a bit. But September was costuming month. My daughter's
school turned 120 years, and the kids were supposed to dress up
"old-fashioned". The school gave some hints on how to do that, and I
browsed my 1887 dress pattern catalogues and found the hints were all
wrong. In fact, I had a hard time finding an 1887s 7 y.o. girl's
costume that would clearly stand out as 'old-fashioned' and could not
have been worn today as well, at least by little girls. Knee-length
skirts and ruffles never went away for girls, I believe. In the end, I
tried to make a costume a bit like Alice's in the original
illustrations of "Through the Looking Glass", in particular a "dress
apron" which I am really proud of, after instructions from the
"Workwoman's Guide, by a Lady". (Okay okay -- that's 1838, but Alice
wears one!) (And she is from 1865, I know -- but at least that way you
can tell that it's an 'old-fashioned' costume!)

Then, only a few days later, my church staged an event where we all
dressed up as people from the 16th century and all travelled from our
church to the Immigration Museum, where a 'German Fest' was on and one
of us, as 'Martin Luther', nailed '95 theses' to a door which we had
supplied ourselves. (The idea was that the other visitors were invited
to afterwards write down their own theses on 'what does the church
need today?' and nail them to the same wall.) At least of that event,
I can point to a few photos: at
http://www.kirche.org.au/index.php?id=104.

Now, I'm ashamed to have to say... I still don't own a dressmaker's
dummy and doubt I'll ever find one that's adjustable to my size. But
if I had one... I wish I already knew what would be on there.

I will be getting married. Yes, and for the very first time in my
life. I already have a daughter and am getting married for the very
first time in my life! And it relly feels like The big event that I
have been waiting for! The relationship with her father  went to
pieces, but now I have met this wonderful, chaotic, intelligent, lazy,
lovable guy who is actually saying he wants to stay with me for the
rest of his life! We will have one (formal) marriage celebration in
Germany and one (religious one) here.

And it's approaching way too fast. The date is early January, and I
also work full time and have a lot of other commitments. In fact, I
feel like I want to retreat and do nothing else for the next three
months than prepare the party. And the biggest question is, what will
we wear?

He does live-acting role play, has seen the costumes I make and has
now made up his mind that he will want to get married in an 1830s
suit. Now, I have never made something like that, and his idea on that
is also very vague, so I'm looking for patterns now. Where can I get
patterns for an elegant 1830s mens' suit?

And for myself? Before the idea of a wedding in historical costumes
came up, I had already fallen in love with burda pattern 8199
(http://www.burdamode.com/Brautmode,1270778-1128998-1005430-1157072,deDE.html;
or, with English text:
http://www.fjoelner.dk/vismonster.asp?vare=6834&la=uk&uart=167)
which to my eyes  seems delightfully eclectic and for that very reason
not historic, but modern. I see 'medieval' in it (sleeves), 'modern'
(bare shoulders) and '1930s' (slim, straight line)... any more
opinions? But how will that match an 1830s mens' suit?  But I'm not
going to make something 1830s for myself -- for fun, yes, not for my
wedding. Not one of those huge hoop skirts. Impossible to dance a
waltz in that. Or a tango. Dancing is a big thing for both of us.

So I'm still not quite sure about my own dress and am still looking
for inspiration.

It's customary that the bridegroom cannot see the bride's dress before
the wedding, so I even have to do all of this secretly!


Okay, please forgive my long post. It's great to be back.


Barbara -_- Maren
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