Friends

One of the most precious attributes of the Haskell community over the last 
twenty-five years has been its supportive, friendly, and respectful dialogue. 
People have often drawn attention to this, and I have always felt good about 
it.  (A great example is this hilarious exchange [1], which I came across in 
the wonderful but sadly-in-abeyance Haskell Weekly News).  As I write this post 
I am travelling back from ICFP where the same high standards of discourse 
prevail.  People certainly ask searching questions, but they do so as critical 
friends, not hostile adversaries. 

There's no denying that our shared dialogue as a community has taken a 
nose-dive in the last few months.  If this change of tone becomes established 
as a norm, I believe it will corrode our common life, perhaps permanently, and 
harm our shared purpose. I would be heartbroken if that happened. 

Underlying these exchanges there are strong differences of opinion.  Some are 
technical judgements; others are to do with an assessment of what will be most 
helpful to new users.  These are matters about which reasonable, thoughtful 
people can differ.  But in a community in which I believe that everyone is 
passionately motivated to do the Right Thing, I am certain that we can debate 
those differences in a more constructive way. 

In writing this post, I am not seeking to discourage open debate, or 
expressions of concern.  It's worth separating two things

  1. Publicly debating an issue where judgements differ
  2. Using offensive or adversarial language in that debate

It's fine to respectfully disagree with someone's judgement (i.e. 1).  It's 
/not/ fine to imply that they have hidden (and bad) motives, or declare them 
incompetent or deliberately obtuse (i.e. 2).  This has no place in our public 
conversations.   The trickier the issue, the more careful we should be to 
express ourselves in a way that is respectful, and is visibly grounded in the 
assumption that the other person is acting in good faith.

I not attributing blame.  There is no idle malice here, nor thoughtless 
trolling.  It's no good each of us pointing the finger elsewhere: our shared 
conversation is our shared responsibility. 

Nor am I trying to paper over the cracks, and pretend everything will be ok if 
we are just polite to each other.  There are significant underlying technical 
disagreements, bruised feelings, frustration, and some anger.   So there is 
work to do together, and I'm in active conversation some of with the main 
protagonists, working on some concrete steps forward. More on that anon, I hope.

Meanwhile, I am asking -- begging actually -- that we work on these issues 
using language that is respectful of others, that celebrates the work of both 
volunteers and companies, and that assumes that our dialogue partners are 
acting from the best of intentions.

Simon

[1] https://gist.github.com/quchen/5280339

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