hi, i got this msg from some1....i was confius when i got this msg...coz..i just trying to pass on a buletin board on friendster 'bout coupling...which i got it from the buletin board....n this is what she replied to me...so any1 who arif 'bout this..could u please answer...
it's true that berdakwah in many ways... and it is
really up to a person to terima your dakwah.. but
before you do... take into consideration tmpt
berdakwah.. to who you are trying to preach...
Even Rasul has his wisdom of preaching...
True.. couple is not in Islam.. but it is not to be
said that it is haram... you have to make correct
deduction in order to really be able to arrive to
such conclusion...
The matter you refered to... dia guna which
Quranic injunction to be used in his Qiyas? Which
hadith.. Is he really a qualified person to give such
statement?
If such qiyas is applied... one musst look at all
matter.. nothing in Quran or Sunnah kata no
coupling.. in fact.. there's a Quranic ayat saying
that Allah has created us all in differences so that
we may learn from each other... concept "ta'
aruf"... Look it up...
Bukan ta' aruf means you get to know that
person.. So why can't we get to know a person
thru coupling?
WHy must it be negative? You don't have to couple
like orang barat. if that's what these people refer
coupling to... You can still meet and talk.. in broad
daylight.. events with friends and movies with
friends... bringing along a muhrim.. Islam beri such
matter in tunang to avoid a third being, i.e.
Syaitan... so, why not apply the same to being a
couple?
An opinion i think you must consider.. Not
because i am in a relationship.. But, this is what i
believe.. Allah tak pernah menyusahkan.. Yes..
there's jodoh.. tapi, kalau tak kenal? you don't
expect to just jump into pertunangan?? Really.. if
you think that way.. good luck..
And i hope after SPM.. or maybe now.. you get to
masuk UiA.. If you stick with this concept, i think
you would be happy there.. Joinlah WuFi... be
happy and enforce no coupling..
xoxo
Puteri Nur Sarah binti Kambali
3rd year 2nd semester, IIUM, Gombak.. LAW
really up to a person to terima your dakwah.. but
before you do... take into consideration tmpt
berdakwah.. to who you are trying to preach...
Even Rasul has his wisdom of preaching...
True.. couple is not in Islam.. but it is not to be
said that it is haram... you have to make correct
deduction in order to really be able to arrive to
such conclusion...
The matter you refered to... dia guna which
Quranic injunction to be used in his Qiyas? Which
hadith.. Is he really a qualified person to give such
statement?
If such qiyas is applied... one musst look at all
matter.. nothing in Quran or Sunnah kata no
coupling.. in fact.. there's a Quranic ayat saying
that Allah has created us all in differences so that
we may learn from each other... concept "ta'
aruf"... Look it up...
Bukan ta' aruf means you get to know that
person.. So why can't we get to know a person
thru coupling?
WHy must it be negative? You don't have to couple
like orang barat. if that's what these people refer
coupling to... You can still meet and talk.. in broad
daylight.. events with friends and movies with
friends... bringing along a muhrim.. Islam beri such
matter in tunang to avoid a third being, i.e.
Syaitan... so, why not apply the same to being a
couple?
An opinion i think you must consider.. Not
because i am in a relationship.. But, this is what i
believe.. Allah tak pernah menyusahkan.. Yes..
there's jodoh.. tapi, kalau tak kenal? you don't
expect to just jump into pertunangan?? Really.. if
you think that way.. good luck..
And i hope after SPM.. or maybe now.. you get to
masuk UiA.. If you stick with this concept, i think
you would be happy there.. Joinlah WuFi... be
happy and enforce no coupling..
xoxo
Puteri Nur Sarah binti Kambali
3rd year 2nd semester, IIUM, Gombak.. LAW
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