Assalamualaikum,
Because I was so lonely I start looking for someone. Of course, someone of opposite sex.
Because the society would give me a one-kind look if I am still (S&A) - Single & Available.
I have to prove to them that I am currently seeing someone... (dah laku, pakcik)
You see, nowadays.. I can expect guys to look for me.
I can't expect guys to do the first move all the times. I have to play my part, too.
But I have to appear approachable and comfortable to be with.
My dressing??? Maybe not "too kampung", so to speak.
I need someone. Men need women too. The opposite attracts. Who could deny the chemistry between the two species though one may come from Saturn while the other from Planet Zargus, I suppose..
When Islam is not there to regulate the affairs of the mankind.
When Islam is taken (i.e. implemented) to address issues related to personal and relation with Allah (hablu min Allah) ONLY.
In the absence of piety (taqwa) in the individual
In the absence of amar ma'ruf nahy munkar in the society
In the absence of Islamic State - to implement Islam in totality - rape is just the symptoms. Not the root cause. The root cause should be rectified, not merely curing the symptoms.
Nevertheless, in the absence of the Islamic State - ketaqwaan individu (individual's piety) is of paramount importance to deter this problem. You ladies, watch out your actions.
i. Have you covered your awrah - refer annur 24:31 (on khimar), ahzab:59 on jilbab (singular for jalaabeeb).
ii. Do you speak almost anything to ajnabi men (those other than you mahram)? Double triple meaning???
iii. Is it normal for you to take a ride in a car with anybody (office mate, neighbour) without mahram of any party accompanying you or the guy in the trip?
iv. Is it normal for you to take ajnabi guy(s) as your confidante ?
On top of that, who are you close friends? Men or women? have you attended any usrah/circles discussing Islam on a regular basis?
Remember:
وَلاَ تَقْرَبُواْ الزِّنَى - al-isra' 32
We ladies must take all reasonable steps to prevent rape or its younger sister, i.e. sexual harrassment. Prevention is better than cure. Preventive measure is fear of Allah (taqwa/piety). Fear of the Hell.
You guys - Ittaqillah is also applicable to you, too.
Wassalam.
On 10/16/05, ruzaihan.junit <ruzaihan.junit> wrote:
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah...
Ok. 1st, i was against this AWAM for many things. But since this infor
looks so important and useful, so I just forward it to you guys. This rape
crime is can never be stop until all women follow Islam teaching. Some
women did invite men to rape them. So how?
And one more thing, stop dating!
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Menurut laporan Polis seorang wanita telah dirogol oleh 5 lelaki disebuah
kelab malam di Singapura pada malam Sabtu sebelum ditinggalkan. Wanita
tersebut tidak berupaya untuk mengingati kejadian malam tersebut, namun
ujian mengesahkan bahawa beliau telah dirogol berulang kali dengan kesan
rohypnol di dalam darahnya dan progestrex, sejenis pil "mencuci" yang
kecil.
Dadah tersebut kini digunakan oleh perogol-perogol dan kemudian "mencuci"
mereka. Progesterex dibekalkan kepada para Doktor haiwan untuk"mencuci"
haiwan besar. Khabarnya Progesterex digunakan bersama Rohypnol, sebagai
dadah dating (dating drugs) dan rogol. Apa yang mereka perlu lakukan ialah
menitiskan Rohypnol ke dalam minuman si gadis, mangsa tersebut tidak akan
ingat apa-apa pun esok paginya, apa yang berlaku kepadanya sepanjang malam
tersebut.
Progesterex amat senang larut dalam minuman, akan "mencuci" agar simangsa
tidak akan mengandung akibat dari perkosaan tersebut dan siperogol tidak
bimbang untuk perlu menjalani ujian air mani dan DNA kemudian. Kesan dadah
ini adalah K*E*K*A*L terhadap si mangsa. Prodesterex asalnya adalah untuk
memandulkan kuda, Mana-mana wanita yang mengambilnya TIDAK AKAN MENGANDUNG
SAMPAI BILA-BILA.
Si durjana boleh memperolehi dadah ini boleh mendapatkan dadah ini dari
pusat haiwan atau mana-mana universiti, dan ia diramalkan akan digunakan
dengan berleluasa di kampus-kampus.
Tolong edarkan maklumat ini kepada semua yang anda kenali terutamanye emak,
adik beradik, saudara mara, teman wanita, dan gadis remaja. Berwaspada
apabila anda keluar, jangan biarkan minuman anda terbiar tanpa dijaga oleh
orang yang anda percayai.
Azila Bakri,
Social Worker,
All Women's Action Society (AWAM)
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